2007-01-07 07:56:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You get to know each other better. I know it sucks but that's life.
2007-01-07 07:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Buffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy. When we are desperate for love, desperate to get married, desperate to avoid being desperate we always make the wrong choice. Who would want to marry much less date a desperate person? It is two people paralyzed with romantic hope, romantic vision, romantic brain and all of it seen through rose colored glasses. Once the marriage sets in it is seen in its own dreary light. Only solution is to date someone for at least 18 months and talk about everything you are interested in and everything you need and want to learn. Only then will you know if this is the one. And don't live together, that takes all the romance out and marriage never happens. There are no easy ways to map out love.
2007-01-07 08:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People
2007-01-10 08:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Noadonis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People take each other for granted, they stop growing and thus become less interesting to each other, they want different things, the do things to undermine each others' respect, and then they blame each other for their feelings. In the end, it's all about resentment. Some people get stuck there too. Relationships require care and feeding, and both partners need to make an effort, and they often don't.
2007-01-07 08:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think who u are seeing now, and during the divorce, is the true him. think this is the way he always was, he let u see his best side when he was romancing u, and wanting to marry u. once he didn't get his way, and wasn't in complete control, the real him came out.he didn't change, he just went back to who he was all along.
2007-01-07 08:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when you love someone,they can do no wrong,and you think that the sun shines out their backside.When you get to know that person better,you realise that they do have faults and that maybe some of their attributes are not to your liking.I guess that's just the way life goes.Maybe their is no such thing as a soul mate???
2007-01-07 08:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all change. When one person changes before the other it inevitably causes problems.....resentment sets in on both sides and bitterness brews it's ugly head.
2007-01-07 18:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We get scared of getting bored ,the we start noticing each others little mistakes and bad habits and since we share our lifes with the personne we can't escape the fact that we have to live with what they are since we are human beings and selfish we start hating our partner because they make us support who they are everyday and then ? you know how the story ends!
2007-01-07 08:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change into differen people when mannerisms change
they react in different ways for instance when you wife talks to toher people immediately she is this sweet nice conciderate person its called fake
but whenits you its spiteful tired over stressed take her out and seperate then catch her eye and smile then look away and do ridiculous things like things that will sexually embarrass her
believe me she will be happy and feel young agian and it helps alot when you have something to slime about and feel mortified at the same time about.
2007-01-07 08:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by mama penguin of destruxion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time we fall out of love with the one we married. and when we do that we end up hating each other maybe thing was going bad and we just did not want to be with each other i guess so
2007-01-07 07:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.
2007-01-07 09:23:05 · answer #11 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋