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Im a virgin, but me and my boyfriend didnt have sex. but we did rub eachother with our privates and he had preejaculation...and it was coming out, and must have went on my vulva.

i havnt gotten my period in a long time...i missed it.

am i pregnant?

also i had my hymen popped...my doctor did that...they can do that for you, so o n wedding nite, its not painful.


ive also been very hott, and warm. Pee leaks, & cramps. and i thought it would b my period, but it isnt. its been everyday for me.

2007-01-07 07:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by littleangelx022 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

10 answers

You can get PG from precum.
Why don't you buy a test? That's the only way to find out for sure.

2007-01-07 08:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0 1

Hi there. It is VERY unlikely for there to be any viable sperm in the pre-ejaculatory fluid. That has been proven over and over again but people for some reason still like to believe that you can get pregnant from it. The odds of you getting pregnant, had he been fully inside of you, would still be very, very low. The odds of you being pregnant considering that there was no penetration are negligible. The odds of pregnancy resulting from ordinary intercourse, with the man ejaculating in the woman are only 0%-20% so can you imagine how low that makes your odds?
I am trying to put your mind at rest so that you will relax. I think that you are making yourself so upset that your period has not started.
I would like to know how late your period it and how long you have been having these symptoms. Some of your symptoms do not sound like early pregnancy but more like some other problem. I would have your thyroid levels checked. Also I would wonder why your doctor opened your hymen for you. That is usually only done if the hymen is unusually thick or obstructive and the woman is getting ready to begin sexual activity. It is by no means a routine part of an internal exam.
If you would like to write to me we could talk about some of the things I mentioned. I would be happy to talk to you.
You could of course buy an at home pregnancy test which I am sure would reassure you. If you have a doctor that you like and feel comfortable with you could also talk to her. I am sure she would be happy to order a blood test which would also put your mind at ease.
Take care and try not to worry. The odds of your being pregnant are almost non-existant.
Blessings
Lady T~

2007-01-07 16:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 1 0

I think it is doubtful that you are pregnant. You need to get a pregnancy test just to be sure. It does not hurt to just check that way you can know one way or another. Pre-ejaculation can cause pregnancy but it needs to actually enter the vagina. Not just land there. If you have been stressing a lot about this situation you could be making your period not come. This happened to me once, I was like 3 weeks late and I was worrying that I was pregnant as well. I can tell you with experience that I have had similar situations in the past before and I never got pregnant. I now have 3 children that were all planned out, no accidents. My advice is not to worry, find some way or someone to get you a pregnancy test. After you find out that you are not pregnant you need to see a gynecologist if you still have not had your period. You could be experiencing the beginnings of irregular periods. I wish you the very best and I hope I was able to help :)

2007-01-07 16:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by hellojenni 2 · 1 1

How long has it been since you got your period? If you're only a couple of days late, I wouldn't worry yet. However, if your period is late, than an early pregnancy test should be accurate. Go to the store and get one just to make yourself feel better.

You might be pregnant, but it's not very likely since it was pre-ejaculate. There are some sperm in pre-ejaculate, but not as many as regular semen and studies have shown that the ones that are in pre-ejaculate are not very viable.

Be more careful next time and use protection.

Good luck.

2007-01-07 15:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by daphnerst 3 · 1 0

Yes, believe it or not, you could be pregnant. It only takes the sperm getting into the vaginal mucous to be able to swim up to the egg. There can be a large number of sperm in pre-ejaculation fluid. You wouldn't be the first to get pregnant from just rubbing together. This is why the pulling out method of birth control is totally unreliable. You definately need to get tested. You can start by using a home test such as the EPT. Even if that comes back negative, you still need to see your doctor in regards to the symptoms you are having. Those symptoms could also be signs of a bladder infection. Take care! Let us know!

2007-01-07 16:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy A, RN 3 · 0 1

I doubt that you are pregnant. When I had sex my 1st time I thought I was pregnant. I missed my period for 3 months and we also used a condom. You might want to go to the doctor's and get a pregnancy test. But you are probably stressed out from thinking you are pregnant and then your body reacts to it cause it thinks you are pregnant just like you. Trust me you have to have sex to get pregnant. Good Luck

2007-01-07 15:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mari A 2 · 1 0

Sperm must go directly into a woman to cause pregnancy---and pretty deep in. I think you are just a little scared. I was too when I was young and a virgin. Don't panic.

2007-01-07 16:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

How long has it been? Certainly it is possible, but hormones can cause these things, too. I suggest taking a pregnancy test when you are able.

Good luck!

2007-01-07 15:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Merry 2 · 1 0

You have a sick Doctor - report him.

Yes you sound like you are pregnant, his semen got in your genitals and it can travel that far.

Go get a pregnancy test.

Good Luck

2007-01-07 15:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by Marc 2 · 0 2

it's very possible to get pregnant from precum...either you're stressed over getting your period or you could be pregnant...

2007-01-07 15:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Joy 2 · 0 0

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