what should a person do when does not have any goal in life?

Question

hi freinds! i am a 17 year old girl and i do not have any motivation to continue my life.i am a good student in highschool . last year i had this aim to become a doctor dentist or a chemist i am studing science in highschool. but now i really do not like these courses not only these courses i do not like any courses .today i cried alot because i come to this conclution that life has no meaning for me any longer. i do not want to not pray god he is really kind really nice he always help me he is always near me and i thank him alot. now i do not have motivation to study too hard next year i will take my university entering exam and i should should study hard try more because these are the most important years of my life. tell me what to do?please.i am bored with this world i just want to sleep under the sky i just want to sit near the sea i just want to smell flowers i want to swim in the ocean but please no wind! good luck!

Answer 1

Something isn't right in what you are saying, this isn't criticism, but let say, If you say : I don't want to not prey?, you are saying some how that you don't which to stop praying?, so, if God gave you life, and life is God business, you are a believer, what is there to you more Important than HIM(God), in this Your Life!, Perhaps, you just cough a Bug, or something, Perhaps I can't answer your question as you may which, but what about HIM(God), if I were you I will ask HIM, directly, perhaps, Jesus?, can Jesus, help, Grow will required for you to fallow the Universal Law, and God desires for Human to achieved and become. Maybe HIM(God), have let you some space for you to begin a better and closer relation with his Son, after all you will need to understand one of this day's that the only way to God, is through his only Son, Jesus. don't you like the idea????. Dream, 17 year old friend dream, and then begin a new grow, don't make God nor Jesus wait, made the world wait, but not anyone of God Family, prey for guidance???? <<>> God bless you, in Jesus Name.Amen.

Answer 2

Maybe you should get a job or two and save up a lot of cash and travel - sleep under the stars, smell the flowers (while you can). Maybe you should turn away from the education which will tie you down for numerous years; an education that you don't appear to want at this time in your life. Uni' is labour intensive, very hard work. I know this, I did it. Seventeen is very young. Far too young to be having such thoughts of hopelessness. Let a go a little.Look for what makes you happy; find that thing and pursue it with all the energy your heart can muster. Allow nothing to get in your way. Understand that the place where you are now is not the place where you will be tomorrow, or six months or six years from now. In ten years you will barely remember the way you are feeling at this time. At forty it, likely as not, be forgotten. The universe is a transitory place. All things pass on; nothing remains the same. You say that you do not know what you want. Yet in the final lines of you message you state what you want: to sleep under the sky, to sit near the sea, smell the flowers and swim in the ocean. Eg: find out how what you could do to get a job abroad - waiting tables in the south of France. I travelled there - and aroudn the rest of France, in a car, by myself. The weather is lovely; the ambience incredible. The flora and fauna stunning. If you are unhappy where you are and with what you've got; with what you are seemingly stuck with then look elsewhere. Set you sights on a goal - even if that goal is finding out what your goal is - and do it with all your heart.
Hope this helps. Neil, UK.

Answer 3

Tell me, who had a really good goal that got that person somewhere? I have no goal either because creating a goal creates only misery. There is no practical, good reason why you are where you are: leaving highschool, going to college. I'd say you doing a good job giving up god, thats just another hollow goal. I just want to point out that you are doing everything you can other than to live "this." Whatever you think this is. Everyone puts so much energy in trying to do something else, when this is all that there is; stop trying to do something with it, you will always do something with "it" anyway.

Answer 4

Are you are trying to grow up too fast?...stop and smell the roses!!!..go to the sea!! be very quiet and listen...perfectly said by yourself...also?...you may be going through a "hormonal" change...it will soon pass...keep your mind open and don't sweat the small stuff..you will be fine...listen to your heart and quit trying to talk to it and convince it of something that you or others expect from yourself. Experiences in life will always affect what you do or don't want. In time these answers will come. I promise. Todays world is extremely stressful with all the negativity. That doesn't make it very easy for someone your age either to even look forward because we don't know what the future is even going to bring...it is so uncertain right now...

Answer 5

its good to have downs like the one your having now cuz soon ull be up and ull appreciate it so much more because of ur current slump...i have no aim in life either...but i just keep living it...i guess its to c whats gonna happen next....sleep under a sky and sit near the sea, smell the flowers, swim in the ocean do everything u want to do not in the future when u can but do it now

Answer 6

I might be the only guy to tell you this here, but being bored is not such a bad thing. Go ahead and be really bored. I encourage you to be as bored as you can be. Take a lot of time to be bored to the gills. In this way, you might become so bored you might actually want to do something, and then maybe you'll find something that interests you enough to do something about it. I suspect that part of the problem is that for a while you thought you should be a doctor or something, but you're finding out that your heart just isn't in it. It's becoming like a boring job to you, and you loathe the surge of work that's coming to you for something you don't really want to do. Welcome to life, it happens to a lot of us. What you need to do is to find out for yourself what is it that really does motivates you, but right know you don't even know. Take your time to find out.

Answer 7

then u need to work for friends of wildlife, peacecorp, things like that volunteer you have a lifetime ahead of you, take your time and it will come to you when the time is right!!! i still want 2 walk along the ocean just 2 hear the water, and imagine all the wildlife under the ocean that mankind is killing off!! you will never be happy if you dont follow your heart. use what u want to do and turn it into somthing good. like help protecting mother earth and wildlife!!!

Answer 8

the important thing to remember is that we all have these feelings at one time or another. You are not unique. Watch the movie "Cast Away". Tom Hanks' observation towards the end of the movie 'talked' to me. All he could do on that island was to breathe each day and go on. Write your feelings in a journal and start it today. if you want to e-mail me it's [e-mail]

Answer 9

Make an effort to help some people who are less fortunate than you. Volunteer to help seniors or at a rehab or cancer facility. Helping those who are suffering often helps us to put life in perspective and to see the purpose in all life.

Answer 10

find something that makes you feel positive i kept a diary of all the things i did that made me happy that's how i found my job now and all the things i love it can be any thing that makes you feel good even as simple as a dress you tried on in topshop that you looked good in it will really help xxxx good luck

if it really is bad, how your feeling then talk to someone it will be bad if you go to uni feeling like that and it will stop you learning