2007-01-07 07:35:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you need to have a calm talk with her about it.
It will probably make it better for both of you if the presence of your friend.
She'll know how to behave and you won't be concerned that something that shouldn't happen will begin brewing.
2007-01-07 09:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep a close eye on the two of them to be sure that there isn't already something going on behind your back. If there is not, then find him a girl and have a woman (not your wife) draped over him at all times. If your wife gets jealous of or dislikes his new girl, you'll know that she wants him and then you can divorce her because if she's going to contemplate cheating on you with your best friend, it's just a matter of time before she starts finding interest in someone else...Best wishes to you.
2007-01-07 15:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you caught your wife Screwing your best bud .. i'd say you have a problem.. dude.. is your wife a living breathing red blooded woman? if you answered yes.. then.. just chalk it up for girls will be girls.. and call it a day.. but keep your eyes open.. and if anything happens thats inappropriate.. dump her..
2007-01-07 15:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by No Religion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make fun of her... tell that you totally saw her looking at him, and then guage her reaction. i am sure that she is just looking cuz he is cute or whatever, and i see nothing wrong with that as long as she doesn't secretly desire him.
there is also a chance that you misunderstood the look as well, and she may have just been looking at him cuz he was speaking, or maybe she gave him the once over cuz he was wearing weird pants. you never know, so don't automatically think the worst
i know i am a people watcher. if i want you, you will know it. otherwise i am probably just scoping the person out.
2007-01-07 16:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the "best friend"might freak you out a bit, but women are human too hun. We can't help looking anymore than guys can. She may not even realize she was checking out! Even if she was, it doesn't mean anything.
2007-01-07 15:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by pooty36 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to look as long as you don't touch.
Everyone looks and I'd bet money if she had a hot friend you'd check her out too.
2007-01-07 15:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER TO BE "CHECKING OUT"? I HATE TO SAY IT - BUT THERE ISNT A MAN OUT THERE THAT DOESNT LOOK AT THE HOTTIE IN FRONT OF HIM.....NOT A SINGLE ONE. LOOKING? CHECKING OUT? DEFINE IT - AND THE TH8INK IF IT WORTH GETTING UPSET OVER.
2007-01-07 15:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey chill out! if it's only looking then never mind... hvn't u checked out her gf? but if it's more than just a look then...it's serious
2007-01-07 15:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by tmoinian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have him....it is better to have found out now
2007-01-07 15:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋