I know what I am going to wear and everything because there is this dance coming up this Friday, but I can't dance at all! Also...I like this guy but I want to get him to notice me...he knows that I like him but he likes me! I want to get his blood folwing..but I already have the prefect outfit...but what else?! HELP!
2007-01-07 07:31:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
OK so, i agree with what someone said about how guys like to watch girls dance. If you can, grab one of your craziest girl friends and start dancing really close with her. This always gets guys interested; they love watching girls dance together. And don't worry if you cant dance. Anyone can try to dance! Just find the beat of the song, move your hips, and ribs. If you're dancing with a girl friend, put an arm or both around her neck and put a leg between hers and your other leg on the outside. Just move together with the music. This will get guys to look at you. Even if you have no idea what you're doing, if you're dancing with another girl, guys will be attracted.
So maybe before you dance with the guy you like, dance with a stranger or another boy so you get some practice and lots of confidence. When you're ready, (if the guy you like hasn't asked you to dance yet), dance near him with your friends. While you're dancing with friends, make eye contact with him, and look like you're having a lot of fun. When the time is right, get as close as you can to him, then just ask him, "Do you want to dance with me?" or something. He wont say no. Then just take his hands, then get in front of him, and there you go!
2007-01-07 08:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do I need to repeat that you need to be flirtatious and let yourself go??? I'm sure other people said that enough!
But now dancing(fast) is mostly in the booty and how much you can shake it~ so shake it a lot, no like a salt shaker though! and more your arms according to the music, keep them up or around your chest! If you want to do some "more" more your hands slowly down your body and to your waist then move your booty!!!
I don't know but if there is any grinding going on, you just focus on being close to him and again moving very flirtatiously!
When it comes to slow dancing put your hands on his shoulder and put your head oh his shoulder if it feels right,too. then keep close and sway to the music.
Enjoy and don't work TOO hard to impress him, it would back fire!
2007-01-07 15:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Hoori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is have some friends teach you their moves and watch MTV and BET; loook at the music videos! study the celebrities' dance moves, and also watch Step Up! there are a lot of dance moves and stuff you can waTCH AND also the guy is soooooo hott!!!!!!!
hope it helps
~~McBaByGiRl92~~
Besides, you dont need to impress the guy by dancing, he should like you for you! without a doubt, i think he should know better than that!
2007-01-07 15:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.Dont worry.Be free in ur moving.Watch some cool clips of Pussycats and so on.Try to repeat their moving...Just while dancing let him know u r hot and u want his heart beating.Boys love when a girl dance for them and dance to make them hot.
Give him a light touch and smile like u r the best/
2007-01-07 15:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Juliya B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good outfit always helps but just b yourself......if he doesnt like that u cant dance, but also if he truley likes he'll help......to dance you just have to fell the music inside of you and most likely your body will just start movin with it.......Good Luck
2007-01-07 19:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by sophie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think that when women say that they dont realize that guys really dont give a damn so what if you cant dance what were you planing to do spin around in circles and he will fall in love ah no. Just go up to him and be like all cute with a smile and stuff start a conversation tell him he looks cute and be like yo I like you god dammit and he will sh*t him self he wont know what to do but make sweet love to you in a meadow
2007-01-07 15:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to practice dancing in your bedroom.
first just walk. walk around. try to feel the music
in your body as if you were a speaker or something.
feel how the music make the inside of your body feel
as you walk. then after awhile slow down and just
switch your weight from foot to foot in one place,
still feeling the music in your body. try to let your
body be as natural as possible as it moves to the music.
watch people dancing on tv to get other ideas.
2007-01-07 22:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the focus off yourself and give him honest compliments. People like it when others make them feel special so focus more on honest complimenting (no flirtatious comments just to be flirtatious), smiling at him and making him feel like he is really special. If you're making him feel really good about himself he won't care how you dance.
2007-01-07 15:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself it shouldn't matter how well you dance if he likes you. get your friends to show you some moves and watch much music for inspiration. you'll do fine. remember just to have fun don't stress. slow dance with him.
2007-01-07 16:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what type of music and what type of dance can u do???
slow dance can't u ask a friend to show u b/c its hard to explain via internet
http://www.learntodance.com/
maybe this will help
2007-01-07 16:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋