should i act on it? and get a divorce or maybe it's fixable? ...my hus.puts under microscope every move i make

Question

i've been married recentely(4 months) .from the very first day my husband acted wierd towards young men around me... every man that looks at me even a glance my husband gets angry and asks me y he looked at me! he says i should ignore everyone who looks at me...cause he thinks they hv certain intentions!!!! ...and he tells me to be careful about my behavior towards other men...even not talk to the friends who he thinkssss look at me more than normal... i keep saying if he trusts me he should not be worry even if i talk and laugh with other men ,they know i'm not that type of women who chaets and...also before marriage i never noticed this behavior from him and was so comfortable but now i can't even move in parties or look around...!can i be hopeful that he gradualy will trust me or not?

Answer 1

sorry to say this i know you want this to work and him to trust you but he most likly will not, if he acts like this now he will only get worse and worse to the point where you woun't be able to even talk to your girlfriends and stuff like that, sorry this is happening and i wish you the best, but from experience and what i have seen with other people they just get worse, unless you address this now and make him go to therapy really good luck

Answer 2

Sounds like a lot going on. You really need to speak with your husband and tell him how you are feeling. He needs to respect that you are married to him and have no intensions of cheating on him. This sounds like an insecurity on his part. also sounds like he is a little controlling. Sit down and think about the good and bad of this marriage. It's only been four months. IF the pros out wiegh the cons then see if you can work on the issues one by one. even seek counseling to help get past this. Good luck. You can't live under a microscope and you have to be able to speak with others without him acting jealous all the time.

Answer 3

they are not searching for that no. Why do theists seem to imagine technology spends any time in any respect actual searching for God? i can not imagine the outrage which will be generated if technology became dropping public funds with the excuse that's attempting to tutor/disprove God! regardless of the indisputable fact that if something that contravenes all standard theories and regulations that's taking position basically which defies all rationalization indefinitely, which will be ultimately information that there is a supernatural element interior the cosmos. yet wait, no such problem has ever been got here upon, not on the smallest of scales, not on the most important of scales.

Answer 4

You are describing the classic beginnings of an abusive relationship. Talk to him see where his thoughts are. Find out if he's just insecure or if there are other warnings to be aware of. If it seems like he's not being straight with you, then get out and fast because this will only get worse, he may start getting physically abusive.

Answer 5

I actually think this is normal for some young guys as they get to know their mate and trust them. I did it at first to let my wife know I was serious about monogamy, but as time went on it became obvious abuse. Plus I married her because I knew she was trustworthy, so it was easy to quit. She did the same (maybe worse), and eventually we realized how stupid it was. Your husbands anger is the only problem I see. Does he threaten to hurt you? If he does, then get rid of the punk a@@ loser.

Answer 6

It is ironic how some people change when they think they are about to loose someone. Either he is imagining that he is loosing your or maybe someone has put the bug into his ear. In either case, it is time to get some counseling before his imagination ruins your relationship. Don't give him any choice.