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2007-01-07 07:24:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you have a boyfriend and you know he is the father, you are not a slut. It only takes once.
They are all going to react strongly to your pregnancy, but they are all going to find out sooner or later. The sooner you tell them, the sooner they can get over it and help you deal with your pregnancy. You don't want to do this alone.
2007-01-07 07:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you are a slut and being pregnant @17 doesn't make you one,either!
Yes, tell your boyfriend and then you & he can tell your and his parents together; about your pregnancy.
You're going to need all the help and support you can get now...whatever your decision regarding your pregnancy will be.
Let all of them be there for you. Good Luck!
2007-01-07 07:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by stormiegirl1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a ****! You are young, got carried away and made a mistake. Yes, you need to tell your parents and your boyfriend as soon as possible. Please keep in mind that your parents may yell and get angry, but it is only because it will scare them. They are concerned for your future and your well being. If your boyfriend isn't mature enough to handle the news, just give him some time. His parents also need to be told. You have alot of options in regards to the baby. It is very important to start prenatal medical care ASAP. Please don't quit school even if you are keeping your baby. An education is the best way to make a good life for yourself and the baby. If you want something bad enough, there is always a way to work it out. Take care and if you want to reach me email me sandya46@charter.net. Good luck!
2007-01-07 07:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy A, RN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably scared but, GOD gave you a child and you should be blessed, but like the others said GET YOUR HIGHSCHOOL DIPLOMA!! education is key, and you should tell your boyfriend first and then the two of you together tell both your parents at the same time, and if you want to keep the baby good on you, but dont end up like other pregnant teens who ditch their babys on their parents and go out party get drunk and have fun and not take care of their responsibilitys, your not a child anymore your a mother now, and its scary but if you dont think you can handle it and if you want to live a normal life without being a teenage mother there is always adoption, maybe GOD gave you this child to give as the most wonderful gift to another couple out there who cannot have children... but the decision is yours, if you plan on terminating the pregnancy, i pray you dont but it is your body and if your *boyfriend* is truly going to be there for you and isnt a deadbeat then he will support you, but you dont need a man to help you raise a child, there are millions of single parents out there who do it on their own, and alot of them have their children even younger then you, and some cant speak english and never had the chance to go to school and get a education, so really think and research your options, and if your parents get mad at you oh well, they are your parents they will ALWAYS love you, you are their baby to them no matter how old you get they will get over it and if they dont, then hey it will only make you stronger to prove them wrong that you can do things on your own.... eventually the grass gets greener on the otherside
2007-01-07 07:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you not tell them? I wish you luck. Time for you to truly grow up, a child is a big deal and this matter should not be taken lightly because the only one to get hurt will be the baby. I have been where you are , just remember that you need to stay strong and do what YOU think needs to be done and not do anything you are not truly sure about .
2007-01-07 07:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by mcsmidge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, well of course you are not a **** unless u sleep around and get paid for it, and I think you should tell your parents and boyfriend, they deserve to know, I didn´t tell my parents I hid my pregnancy and now I regret it because your family is always gonna be there for you and the baby, yes is a big responsability but is one of the biggest joys of life, so share this happiness with your family and enjoy your pregnancy, you are gonna go through hard times but isn´t life full of those anyways...
2007-01-07 08:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by msmj0306 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 wow well first tjings first make sure no matter what you get your diploma
also get medical and how old is your boyfriend?
if he is young girl he will not stay with you it will be drama for the next 10 years believe that ok
if he doesnt stop loving you you will stop loving him
it took me a while to get on the right track and i had a hard time i stopped loving him and went on to someone better it was for the best
tell them and decide together ok it can only go one way
and remember the ones who will always want whats best for you are the ones who brang you into this earth and raised you
2007-01-07 07:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by mama penguin of destruxion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your profile says your 19. I think you're bored.
If you truely are 17 an pregnant, you've messed your life up pretty well and you 're going to need you parents boyfriend and all the help you can get.
2007-01-07 07:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by missourim43 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not a **** i am 16 and i am 9 months pregnant, but yes you need to tell ur parents and boyfriend, theres no use hiding it from them and bringing stress among urself, stress isn't good for you or the baby, but try to calm down and tell ur parents and bf, good luck!
2007-01-07 07:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by CO mommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do I think your a what? You need to tell your parents immediately that way you can start prenatal care for yourself. I had my first baby at 17 also. You need to tell your boyfriend also, it's his responsibility too.
2007-01-07 07:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋