I mean I have to calm him down EVERY time he comes home!
whats going on??? He also isnt very affectionate-and does not think I am ever funny.I am a funny puppet I know.But if I quit being the puppet... he will be mad all day,too!!
2007-01-07 07:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by to tell ya the truth........... 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OH !!
Being the puppet is a new behavior for me !I reconize it as being a quick soulition for peace until I find out whats wrong.lets drop the judgement of me for now and help me find a way to get him into anger management....I guess I had hoped everyone would have taken that as the "given" sorry!!!
He is an official here and deals with the worst kind of criminals And thank-you all !!!
2007-01-07 07:55:57 · update #1
dump him ...too much emotional baggage
2007-01-07 07:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it have been me i might hire a babysitter and circulate out as quickly as in awhile. to not get even yet just to have a while to your self. You watch 3 toddlers all day and deserve it. If he has funds to circulate to a on line casino all night then he has funds to furnish you to hire somebody. Father's day isn't for him to savour his self yet to spend time together with his toddlers. He might desire to have taken them someplace right this moment fairly of being so egocentric. I comprehend he works 6 days each week yet you artwork 12 months a three hundred and sixty 5 days 24/7. the place is a while for your self. i for my area think of that if greater female have been given to have a raffle to get faraway from house usual jobs, toddlers, cooking , and so on they'd not be so unhappy or care if their husbands needed a while to play golfing , and so on. yet in no way might desire to the two considered one of you be out all night and unavailable to one yet another. for the reason which you have toddlers and each so often there are emergencies. It sounds to me such as you will possibly be able to desire to have a excessive communicate. No combating only lay the enjoying cards on the table. What does he elect , what do you have chose, and is the marriage in disaster.. i'm hoping issues artwork out !
2016-10-30 06:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your husband has gotten used to you calming him down now when he gets home, so he is behaving this way out of that. Or maybe he thinks about going home a just gets highly pissed at the thought that you are going to be there. Maybe he's getting tired of having a "puppet"
2007-01-07 07:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Amaya T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming through the door mad every day has to be dealt with. You definitely need to talk to him and maybe get him to a counselor. Who knows what he is mad at? Take care and hope all gets well.
2007-01-07 09:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by ms bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what it wrong. suggest some counseling. try to let him know that you don't have the energy to cheer him up everyday and that it is hurtful that he isn't even excited to see you... just mad.
sounds like he is depressed or has too much on his mind, or maybe he just doesn't like you.
one way or the other i think you should be talking to him about what his problem could be.
2007-01-07 07:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a tough job, obviously. talk with him, see if he is mad at you or at work. It's hard to leave work at work alot of time.
2007-01-07 08:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by t t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋