alright well, i got a problem, i like a really nice girl, i've known her for a while now, she trusts me enough to tell me secrets no one else knows, we both trust eachother like that. my problem is, i really like her, but she's a close friend, among many other friends. my question is, would both of us, trying out a relationship disrupt our group of friends, and would a relationship between us end in us not talking at all anymore.
2007-01-07 07:16:44 · 6 answers · asked by aaron m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It shouldn't disrupt your group of friends, it just means that occassionally the 2 of you would hang out with out them. As for your relationship ending in you guys not talking anymore...if your friendship is that strong it should survive anything, and remember the saying "nothing ventured, nothing gained"..If you are both interested in a relationship and don't try then you may spend the rest of your lives wondering "what if?" Good luck in love
2007-01-07 07:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, like I said to someone else the other day, you young guys today are the first, I believe, to have friends of the opposite sex. Historically young people were not really "friends" with those of the opposite sex, not to say that we didn't know eachother of course and like eachother, but we didn't "hang out" with the opposite sex in the same way that we do with our same-sex friends. So, I just don't know, I mean you guys are in uncharted territory as far as I'm aware.
2007-01-07 15:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it wouldnt be wierd your friends if u guys r dating because ur happy, there happy and u guys all hang together, if this does happen i think its best not to do mushy stuff in front of them. however if u break up then there may be problems unless u truly moved on and u reall really want to remain friend with this girl. if all u talk abput is the weather and all your friends r the same its going to be HUGE! but ull never know unless u try
2007-01-07 15:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the girls will wait the men to tell their feelings first. if i were you i will ask her if she don't mind if u tell something to her and start telling her how do you feel if you are with her. let her feel that you care about her. let her know that you care about her. let her know that you love her but before telling all these things ask an apology and tell your wishes and hopes that you both will stay friends. a true friend can understand and if she loves you too then you are lucky enough.
2007-01-07 15:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by lucita e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about the way u feel
2007-01-07 15:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it! if you really liked her, you wouldnt care how much your other friends cared.
2007-01-07 15:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋