These girls just don't like me,please help me, I'm so embarrassed?

Question

ok so we were in gym class on friday and we were in the pool, these girls who always have been mean to me(since 4th grade) decided it would be funny to pull the string on my bikini top so every body could see my chest. now all the guys have seen me and now are askin if they can see them in private and they didnt even get in trouble for it. im so embarrassed, these girls are so mean and only to me and my friend drake (we dont know why) but what should i do about it?? im in 8th grade
the teachers didnt say anything to then ecept "girls thats extreamly imature, dont do it again" i mean whats up with that, they have major beef with me for no reason!!!

they have no good reason i asked them when i was in 6th grade i asked them why they were so mean to me, they said it was cuz i was 2dark and they didnt like me cuz im not white, i've never been rude to these girls never been mean or nas

i dont wanna be their friend but i dont want hem to keep being so mean to me,when we were in 4th grade they poured a bucket of sand over my head, i got an eye infection in BOTH eyes, and in 5th grade they cut my one of my pigtail braids out of my head, my rair used to be so long but now so my hair would look normal its only at my sholders, then in 6th grade they compleatly destroid my replica of anciant china (it was my project) and in 7th grade they told every body i had sex with my gay bff drake(have u ever seen the movie saved when she tries to turn her bf straight? well thays what they said i did) and i didnt do that, i have a bf(who i dont have sex with) and now they do this to me, whats it gonna be next year...huh?

my mom is dead, my dad is kinda creepy, he kinda keeps to him self since my mom died and im an only child

their exact words were"we dont like N*****s and i told them i am not black i am mexican and cuban and puerto-rican(my mom was cuban and puerto-rican)

before my mom died, she told me(white people please dont get offended) she said"white people are gonna always try to be better than you so you always gotta be a cut above and thet all your white friends will slowly slip away" i can still hear her saying that in my head, i only have one friend , Drake he's Thai and he's gay so every body is mean to him also.

well when i told my dad he said"ay mija(miha) just ignore dem they are jelous because you are so much prettier then they are" i asked him not to call their parents cuz then people will make fun of me more

in my science class they are always pointing at people saying yur white yur white then they point at me and say we dont know what you are and then they point to drake and say yur a **** and thai then they all laugh at us

they also mock my father because his voice is very heavy spanish accent and he doesnt speak alot of english and they make fun of him and THAT really pisses me off, the spanish teacher(she's white)i have most of my classes with her cuz when confrences come around she can speak to my father, they make fun of my mother dying and when they do that i just cry because i remember when i saw her in the hospital dying(she was hit by a drunk driver,she broke her back, her legs and her left arm and was bleeding in her stomach) the last thing she said to me before she died was "no deje a esas muchachas incomodarle y te quiero" that means dont let those girls bother you and i love you

Answer 1

humpf what if you caught one and beat her butt. then told her it is because she is just not dark enough. i mean really turn the tables on them. do you have other friends? hang with them. did you tell your mom. see if you can switch schools. i hated middle school girls are just too mean it will change when you get to high school. when i got to high school and enrolled in all the fun acitivities then those same girls were cheering for me as i marched in the band, ran track etc. change how you deal wit em. dont try to be their friend, dont try to talk with them. dont say anything to them. dont look at them. be proud of your color and they are probably jealous because you have a prettier complexion and they have to tan to get your color anyway. dont wear any kind of bikini for swim. you probably looked good and they were jealous of that too. they dont want you getting anymore attention than them. so they do things so that you will feel bad because you are probably prettier. realize that. sometimes you gotta put your game face on and be mean. get a major attitude about urself and how good you look. i would play them. the next time one of the guys says can i see them. say well i am not like that kind of gurl, but can we be friends. have the guys all over you. dont do nothin with the guys, cause they are being guys and you must have looked good. let everything that they do backfire on them. girl power!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oh and i just though of something else. when i went to my hometown this spring. i ran into one of those same sorry mean girlz. she lives down the street with me still with her parents. she has 3 teeth in her mouth, picky packy hair, 3 children and looks like a hot mess. i was laughing at her to her face. in front of her children.

Answer 2

Lmfao.Omgosh,!That's Hella Embarrassing. Well That's What She Gets For Stuffing. Wow Though, If I Was Going To Bend Down Knowing That I Was Wearing A low Cut V Shirt And I Was Stuffing I Would Of Put My Hand Over My Boobs. But Since Her Fell Out I Would Just Leave The Socks And Start Speed Walking.

Answer 3

Well, this is bullying. There is no other explanation for it. If you notice; they always do it in a crowd, you've been a target since grade 4, and it may have been the fact that you were different, but for whatever reason, it was OK for them to terrorize you, it's got to stop now! You need to have your parents with you and see the principal of your school. If the principal doesn't take this seriously, go to the School Board and see the person in charge. This is a major deal, and no one should be made to feel scared about a gym class or going to school. These girls will continue to act this way right into adulthood, and someone needs to step up and let them know that this is NOT OK.
Just an FYI moment, wasn't this type of thing discussed after the Columbine shootings, or any type of 'acting out' where frustration is so apparent. Find an adult who will listen to you and help.

Answer 4

Know what will really piss them off? Acting like they don't bother you at ALL, and ignoring them.
And when you see them, say "Good morning" or whatever verry sweetly, with a big smile.
They will be confused, and may move on to a new target if they can't get a reaction from YOU.

Bless you hon---mean girls become mean women, and you will run into them your whole life. Just remember that you are the better person, and will not stoop to their childish level!

Answer 5

oh buddy - it ssssoooooooooo doesnt matter what these girls think of you. what is important is whether or not you let them get to you. JUST FORGET THEM......dont let them control what you do. whenever they are mean - just tell them they are not worth your time - and WALK AWAY! thier reasons for being mean to you are soooooooooo STUPID AND IMMATURE!! Do you really want them as friends anyways? you are sooooooooo much better off with out them. and eventually they will grow up - jst dont change yourself for them......especially since you are better than they ever will be.

Answer 6

To me these girls are jealaous of you. So they are trying to find some excuse to keep picking on you and your friend to boost their egos. Do not let them bring you down in anyway. When they see they are getting to you to with their comments and things this just makes them worser, you have to stand your ground hun. Show them that you are more than just your color GOD made you ur color for a reason, I bet they bake in the sun trying to be your color huh. LOL!!! You have to find your self esteem and when they make those rude comments and things pay them no attention and keep on walking when they see it is not phasing you at all they will leave you alone. They are doing it outta jealousy and spite they no nothing other than stupidity. If you like make you a comment like look at me I bet you wish you was me huh and laugh back at them see they do not like for you to make comments back cause that shows them ur a strong person and whatever they say does not phase you anymore, when they look ur direction just smirk at them the will think ur talking about them and keep on walking. They sound like bullies just trying to find a weak person to pick on stand ur ground and show them ur no push over. Hold your head high dress in a more conservative manner and walk with nothing but pride be pround of the person GOD made you to be spend less time on them and more time on how to make your self esteem bigger than them. Better yet look out for any guys that they have crushes on and when you see these guys come ur way to talk to you flirt with them back and walk down the hall with them in their face. This nonsense has to stop thou. Try to switch schools tell ur dad and get ur dad to press charges on them as well for pulling down ur top and the school did nothing about it really suck. That would have been the day the N***** would have came out even if it is not in me they would have seen a real one that day when they pulled my top. Seems like ur in a racist school tell ur dad they are not right at all not even the school when they did nothing. DO you have other relatives elsewhere?

Answer 7

Well theres no excuse for that behavior...I would see If I could press charges on them for pulling down your top...If that was me I would have to get with them one good time..They're obviously jealous of you.

Answer 8

f**k them. ignore them and make your own girl group. and when you do make sure all the girls hate them. and when you see them torture them!