Ok this may sound wierd but I am just looking for opinions cause it is really bothering me...
One year ago I was in a relationship with someone who I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. Well things didnt work out that way...He cheated on me, abused me etc etc....The list goes on and on...Anyways, now I am in a very normal relationship..
We get along well, we are very affectionate with one another. We trust each other. We are both very comfortable with each other etc etc....
I just feel as though the feelings that I had for my ex were so much stronger...I dont know if it is because those feelings were jealousy and drama but I want to feel as strongly for my new beau. He is great but I am just not used to a drama-free/normal relationship......
Are jealousy feelings stonger than love?
2007-01-07 07:01:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The jealousy and the drama kept you on the edge of your seat, never knowing what was going to happen next. But that is also kind of self destructive to be missing something like that. If you have a nice relationship and you both get along you should relax and enjoy it. Maybe this guy is a great guy but he may not be Mr. Right either. Take your time, get to know each other and then decide if the two of you are meant to be together long term. At least you are learning what a healthy relationship is like.
2007-01-07 07:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perchance what you've been dealing with for the first 4 months become no longer Love in any respect, basically large Happiness. supply it time. Love often doesn't are available only 5 months. each so often it takes longer than that. i'm in a drama loose courting besides (for the first time). It takes some adjusting. you receives used to it. basically delight in it for what it really is, and substances up comparing it.
2016-12-28 08:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are really super in luv with the guy then dont care about the jealousy just tune it out, but if you aint so crazy about this guy then jealousy is deffinetly gr8er then luv, in fact, it mostly allways is, even when you know he loves you you will still get jealous.
2007-01-07 07:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make this man suffer because of the mistakes the ur ex. ur ex was wrong to you and you are lucky to have this guy who cares about you enough to respect your feelings. just give it time.
2007-01-07 07:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by Savannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..............
2007-01-07 07:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋