These girls just don't like me,please help me, I'm so embarrassed?

Question

ok so we were in gym class on friday and we were in the pool, these girls who always have been mean to me(since 4th grade) decided it would be funny to pull the string on my bikini top so every body could see my chest. now all the guys have seen me and now are askin if they can see them in private and they didnt even get in trouble for it. im so embarrassed, these girls are so mean and only to me and my friend drake (we dont know why) but what should i do about it?? im in 8th grade
the teachers didnt say anything to then ecept "girls thats extreamly imature, dont do it again" i mean whats up with that, they have major beef with me for no reason!!!

they have no good reason i asked them when i was in 6th grade i asked them why they were so mean to me, they said it was cuz i was 2dark and they didnt like me cuz im not white, i've never been rude to these girls never been mean or nasty to them, they dont like drake cuz he's gay.

my mom is dead, my dad is kinda creepy, he kinda keeps to him self since my mom died and im an only child

their exact words were"we dont like N*****s and i told them i am not black i am mexican and cuban and puerto-rican(my mom was cuban and puerto-rican)
before my mom died, she told me(white people please dont get offended) she said"white people are gonna always try to be better than you so you always gotta be a cut above and thet all your white friends will slowly slip away" i can still hear her saying that in my head, i only have one friend , Drake he's Thai and he's gay so every body is mean to him also.

in my science class they are always pointing at people saying yur white yur white then they point at me and say we dont know what you are and then they point to drake and say yur a **** and thai then they all laugh at us

they also mock my father because his voice is very heavy spanish accent and he doesnt speak alot of english and they make fun of him and THAT really pisses me off, the spanish teacher(she's white)i have most of my classes with her cuz when confrences come around she can speak to my father, they make fun of my mother dying and when they do that i just cry because i remember when i saw her in the hospital dying(she was hit by a drunk driver,she broke her back, her legs and her left arm and was bleeding in her stomach) the last thing she said to me before she died was "no deje a esas muchachas incomodarle y te quiero" that means dont let those girls bother you and i love you.

Answer 1

Aw, sweetie I feel for you. Girls can be vicious. I had the same problem in elementary school. In sixth grade she tried to make fun of me again and I tore her apart (with words).
She said to me "What's with your hair, why is it so short, you look like an idiot."
I cut her off and said "What? I'm sorry, I was distracted by that bulbous nose hanging off of your face. Maybe you should take a good look in a mirror before you make fun of anyone else -- that is if you can get close enough to one with that nose!"

It was mean, but she never bothered me again, she became the brunt of jokes around the school, and I became a social butterfly in highschool, with more friends than she had. Then towards my senior year, I started to model.
People like that need to be put in their place. Come back at them with something clever and don't let them bother you, as hard as that may be. They are insecure and are picking on you so that they don't have to think about how much they hate being who they are.

That girl i mentioned before? She's fat, ugly and has no friends that care for who she is now. She almost flunked out of highschool and now goes to a community college (so do I , but I want to save money on the first 2 years because they don't matter =p) Remember that you are better than they are and you don't need to change for anyone.
I have a few open questions now, respond to one if you need anything else.
Good luck, and don't you ever let them drag you down!



EDIT:
Here's my email if you need it. [e-mail]
I'm here any time you need to talk or vent.

Answer 2

Maybe they're jealous for some reason. Girls put down other people to make them feel better about themselves. If the don't like you because of your color that's their own fault. And I think that it is a bad fault indeed. Try to ignore them as much as possible. But don't let them know that you're mad. The game will get boring if they don't get a reaction from you and your friend. As for those guys askin to see your chest, tell those perverts to stay away from you. It's a good thing that you've never been mean to those girls, or else the whole thing would just get worse. Keep an eye out for them from now on and don't let them get to close to you. Just in case. ^_^ Good luck and God bless!

Answer 3

Go to your principle whenever you can.
I don't know what's up with your teachers, but they're not doing their job like they should.
Those girls are racist toward people not like them, that's normal.
A black kid came to our school one day, and all the guys started calling him names.
Tell your principle that there are some very racist kids in your grade, and they pick on you.
I'm in the 6th grade, and I get made fun of, too, but not for people being racist.
Tell your principle all the bad stories about these girls, so he/she can see what's been going on.
Also, you should tell him that the teachers did absolutely nothing about the incidents.
Tell him that it bothers you and hurts your feelings.
I hope your principle helps you, cause that's awful.
I can't imagine being in a situation like that, but remember: No matter whether you're Mexican, White, Black, whatever, everyone's beautiful for who they are.
Those girls might be jealous of you, too.
You can e-mail me anytime you want to, okay?
My e-mail is [e-mail]

Answer 4

o wow this is a tough one but basically ignore them. If they continue to be mean and bitchy and you dont respond they should stop. but if they dont - this probably sounds lame - but tell a guidance councelor. This same thing happened to me with this one girl at my school harrassing my friend and I and when we told a guidance councelor, she got called in and eventually gave up bothering us. It should work but just remember - youre the better person here and dont lower yourself to their level.

Answer 5

Well...I am white and I have never heard another female say she didn't like someone because of the color of their skin. Sounds like some mean b-tches to me. Ignore them...act as if they are invisible.

Answer 6

You really shouldn't post the same question in three places. People already gave you a lot of answers in Adolescent.

Answer 7

You need to go up to the one who pulled your top off-preferably by herself,and just kick her a**--dont even say anything to her-just start punching her in her face. then leave,she may or may not tell anyone but, im sure they will just ignoe you from now on-or just give dirty looks---STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!!

Answer 8

Talk to the principle about this and tell him everything.
If he will not help them go to the school board.
Good Luck to you.