Why do men find lesbians "sexy" and not immoral while they think gay men are disgusting and immoral?

Question

Serious questions only!

Thanks!

Answer 1

Well as you ask for only serious questions.

I don't think gay men are immoral. They cannot help what they are. If there is a God, this God gave them the genes that made them the way they are. So if anyone is to blame, it is the God who made them as they are.

I do find women sexy, all women. Thin, thick, fat, chubby, short, tall, medium in height, black, brown, yellow, white, hey all women are sexy.

And this answer is totally serious.

Answer 2

It has long been taught to our society to appreciate female beauty. Men are not looked upon for beauty or grace. Women over the centuries have been in the role of capturing peoples attention and making themselves desirable. Men on the other hand made themselves desirable by having good paying job or being well connected. It was about money and power.
So, is it a far stretch to believe that we do not look at men as we do women. It is only recently that some men have had more fashion sense than females. In which goes against what has been passed down through the ages. People are breaking the roles society has set forth as standard practices. Husband goes to work and wife raises children. On an evolutionary scale, these are recent changes. People haven't adjusted yet that's all.
Plus rich men were allowd to have more than one wife, and kings had harems. So, what happens when the king cannot satisfy all his women. They make due without him. Since they are not related by blood and share a similiar connection, they relate to one another. Relationships probably developed and thus it became acceptable. The men may have found this interesting and thus the idea of watching two women became something only rich and powerful men observed. Something beyond the normal man's reach. Hence "EVERY MANS GOAL"

Answer 3

Because they see someone and don't know direct that it is a lesbian.Lateron when they will know it they want say....that such a sexy woman can be a lesbian.and why they find a gay men disgusting and immoral?Because when they too not yet knew he is gay it is a friend,when they know they have learn that can't be because it stay in a bible it may not be, but they haven't read the bible well.Because when it was a god who have created all here in the world even god did make faults.but he have say all is created by me no matter what.All what lay between and say they bring the good words in the world in the name of god they lie

Answer 4

I never took any courses in human sexuality, but as an amateur, hears my answer:

Men find lesbians attractive because most of the lesbians that they encounter are in porn films and on "Girls Gone Wild" videos, where the women are attractive "lipstick" lesbians.

Lesbians appear in porn and erotic films because men are visually oriented. Women don't generally buy pornographic magazines or seek out movies with nudity. Men, on the other hand, love them.

And keep in mind that men don't often find forty-something overweight lesbian couples attractive when they see them in the grocery store.

As for gay men, there are two possible sources of discomfort for straight men. First, there is the fear that a gay man will attempt to have sex with them. Second, there is the view that femininity equals weakness, and being friendly with gay men would be a sign of weakness.

Answer 5

I think most guys know what guys are like and are repulsed by the thought of having some big hairy guy getting "intimate" with them. Women are soft, sensual, and put out the right type of phermones. For some it might be like a two-scoop ice cream cone rather than a single scoop. I find it hard to believe that most men had a point in their lives when they didn't have a fantasy about being with two women. Over time, I think the value of love, family and commitment overshadows that feeling, but they still lack the sense of repulsion.

Answer 6

Stealing,mendacity,cheating,dope pushing,enjoyed ones abuse, a number of those issues are incorrect and surely not all that ordinary,yet all of us understand a few people who extra wholesome a kind of diverse varieties, and yet they nevertheless draw close around in step with danger because of the fact some are in our families one way or the different, yet we like a number of them even love a number of them even with our sexual alternatives. If we can positioned aside our ideals for despite the justifications, can not you start to appreciate that individuals can care a pair of person and nevertheless don't experience what they are doing is right, yet can nevertheless surely love that categorical the comparable as they could do someone not in touch in those moves? I went around the abode with this answer, yet what the element is that someone can care deeply approximately you, and nevertheless disagree alongside with your existence form ,and that i understand that for a actuality, because of the fact it is the way i'm! additionally many human beings took what you wrote in an opposite vogue, because of the fact while some human beings see the be conscious"gay" their blinders pass up. and that they then see and pay attention what they think of is written, not what's surely on the web site(smile) I knew precisely what you have been asserting specifically you probably did not experience you will possibly desire to be actual friends with someone that disagreed alongside with your sexual selection, why some individuals did not get that.i will in no way understand! working example JD yet another person that did not get it, extra desirable down. hiya JD and the others, the guy it is looking this question is gay, did you understand that?

Answer 7

It could be that men do not feel threatened by lesbianism because there is no male competing for the attention of the females. Even though rationality suggests that there is less of an opportunity for mating because they do not feel attracted to males, the man's desire may overcome this and still give him hope. The idea of two men engaged in sexual relations may be considered a threat because as humans we empathize with others and put ourselves in their place. As a homosexual male, when a man puts himself in the place of one of the two males engaged in intercourse his is disgusted because this is not the union he desires.

Answer 8

Because men for the longest time have been the one in power and the ones in power decide whats right or wrong. And since lesbians are see as appealing to men then its more accepted.

Answer 9

cause hetero men are attracted to women, so 2 women is just double sexy, while 2 men leaves them nothing to get excited about. plus i think most men are at least slightly homophobic.

Answer 10

well it's because we "men" are not women so we do not know how women feel if they are lesbian
we however, do know how men feel about men with men because we are men
that is why we hate gay men and love lesbians
srry if that is too confusing