Miss Hungary 1985 committed suicide in 1986, at the age of 17. What is your opinion?

Question

In 2004 I created a website about it. Collected hundreds of articles, photos, videos etc. I still don't know why she committed suicide - because of her problems in private life or because she was the beauty queen in 1985, not earlier and not later? (Do not forget that it was a skizofrenic state of our history: still in the communist era, but only a few years before changing the system).
Just a quotation:
"it was not the splendour, she couldn't bear but the cheekiness of wicked and irresposible bastards playing with a girl being nearly a child. Actually, they were motivated by sole financial interests. How many deaths are people of their breed responsible for? How many items could be deleted from our statistics on suicides without their involvement or if others murmuring against them, would act upon their words. Who is responsible?"
And the website: http://www.molnarcsilla.hu
Please tell me what you think.

Answer 1

My opinion ? . . . The beauty of a body is one thing . . . the heart of a soul is something entirely separate. She was noticed and 'crowned' for her poise and beauty. Yet her heart soul was apparently still not heard or embraced as she needed in her life.
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Answer 2

Was she from your family? Your photo here remember her face, a little. (???)

She has a sad face and eyes on photos.
I have always tryed to understand hungarians. I am brazilian and I had a relationship with a hungarian man. His eyes are "sad" too.
When I went to hungary, I felt the big difference between people stile from brazil. Culture differences. Maybe because the country histories too (comunism, as you mentioned), etc.
About the Miss. To be a teenager is not so easy, we know. The psicologist side is very complex for everybody. some people in such situation (aestetic work.... bealty, etc) feel so pressured by everybody. They suffer, thinking they need to be perfect and reach people expectation. Maybe she has got very confuse after the title, and asked herselv: Why? For whar? and now? Do I need to be perfect forever because I am the moust pretty? What kind of live should I need to have now? Will I be always the queen? Where will I find my privacity and my freedon as woman?.... Maybe all this things was too much to her, and plus some others personal problems was the reason.
But, I think that, in such situation the reason are not important.
It was her choise, and nothing or nobody has to take tha blame.
Mistery of human feelings and brain!

Answer 3

I think society is partly responsible for its individuals, whether they turn out good or bad or simply kill themselves. I don't think society is ready to admit that though, which is probably why our religions condemn certain acts, especially suicide, as a way of putting the blame on the individual, it's just so much easier this way. Indeed, how do we punish society when it's members are only partly and indirectly involved? For instance, sure it's easy to condemn the people who used her for money, but why not condemn the public for wanting to give their money? Some suicidals suffer from real psychiatric problems, but others don't. We can blame the immediate family for some, but who's responsible for producing the family? I guess society is partly responsible for the very things it considers wrong and it will continue to try to make these right. It strives for perfection. We can only make sure we take the right steps towards one that all will want to be a part of rather than want to escape through suicide.

This example teaches me more to take steps away from money, and material gain. Money is good to have in order to survive, but if we continue to want more and more we create conditions that lead to many evils. This same greed obviously leads not only to the deaths of a few, it can play an important role in international conflicts and eventually to the possible extinction of our species.

Obviously, a large part of modern society has made too many steps in the wrong direction. How to undo this is gonna take a lot time and generations if it ever happens, but for sure we won't live to see the last case of suicide. At the moment the other thing we can do is keep people company and give them hope.

In searching for responsibility we must all take some of it otherwise not enough of us will do our share to make our society better.

Answer 4

you will possibly be able to and particular may well be arrested and charged for helping in a suicide in spite of what the deceased needed, no remember if there is data. no remember in case you're convicted or now not, is in many cases as lots because of the fact the Jury. I for one, would not propose helping somebody dedicate suicide because of the certainty it fairly is notwithstanding seen against the regulation even in spite of the undeniable certainty which you in all probability did now not kill definitely everybody. it fairly is termed the Failure to act regulation. It skill that if an trouble-free and in cost guy or female might have stopped the crime from happening no remember if with the aid of employing calling the government or coping with it in his or her very own way and did now not, they may well be charged! Now a days in spite of the undeniable certainty that human beings have good attorneys and particular situations have particular situations, so which you with the aid of no ability comprehend for particular. yet i might say that helpful it fairly is against the regulation, and additionally you would be arrested and charged.

Answer 5

i think thats really sad...especially because she was 17....i honestly dont know why anyone would want to end their life so early..theres so much more to experience and everything thats happened up to that time [even if it was tremendously bad] does not lay out the path for the future. Things do get better...eventually

Answer 6

What a shame.Such a beautiful girl.She was very pretty and sweet it seems.I always feel sorry when I hear stories like that.Would she still be here if she didn't win the competion?Maybe yes maybe no. . .anyway I hope she has found peace and rest.

Answer 7

Very sad.

Answer 8

Pretty sad.