ok a family member is forcing me to go to my great grandmothers funeral that i only saw once in my life and had no realation to.I really dont wanna go...Any ideas how to get out of it without faking sick?
2007-01-07 06:38:02 · 10 answers · asked by elain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try to bring your great-grandmother back to life! that got me out of a funeral! it really does work!
2007-01-07 06:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by KoKo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go the momorial. not the actual funeral. your excuse for not going to the funeral is ' I did not have much of a relationship w/ her.' But buy flowers and put them on her grave to show you cared.
2007-01-07 14:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im srry but i think u should go. i know you dont have much feelings for her but you DO have relation to her! if it weren't for her then you wouldn't even be here to type this question! c'mon, how long is it going to be? it's not going to take up much of ur time and plus, im sure just being there would mean a lot to that family member of urs that wants u to go.
2007-01-07 15:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or you could be like me and I literally pass out at funerals...I can't take them and have panic attacks...the last one I went too I had to get up and excuse myself because I was on the verge of fainting...I'm not making it up though its just something I am terrified of...
2007-01-07 14:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Elle1771 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just go. It's will only be for a short time. Although you do not know her, that can be your way of showing her respect
2007-01-07 14:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by With My Forever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could say that it hurts emotionaly too much to go to the funeral?
2007-01-07 14:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by mangalangadude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - hon it is much more respectful to go and pay your final respects. it may not be what you WANT to do - but it is the RIGHT thing to do.
2007-01-07 14:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to fake sick, just tell them that you do not want to go.
2007-01-07 14:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-07-15 05:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Theo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go, dont be so selfish.
2007-01-07 14:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by red77chevy350 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋