Can someone help me? I think I may be Pregnant from being fingered?

Question

Okay so my boyfriend and me started to do stuff on November 25 and the last time we did anything before my scare was December 10. The only thing my boyfriend has done is fingered me. Both his underwear and my underwear were on. I was supposed to get my period December 14. Usually I am a little irregular and dont worry but two days after I was supposed to get my period I woke up from a nap and was really scared for some reason. I started to feel the area below my stomach and I felt that it was sticking out. I got so scared I started to push on it rub on it I started to cry and tried to make myself throw up. For the next 5 days I could hardly eat or sleep all I did was worry. Then on December 22 I got my period in the morning. It was the same time length but it seemed a little lighter I dont really remember it much. So I felt relieved until December 27 when I noticed the bulge down there was still sticking out. From then until now January 7 I havent eaten at all almost, slept at all. All I do is think about it. I've had brown discharge 4-5 days after my period. It lasted a day. Then Ive had like a different smelling discharge. I got so scared from all this that I took one of the E.P.T. pregnancy tests on January 3 at night. I got a Not Pregnant screen I drank some water before the test and I was relieved until I went online and googled how accurate are the tests and it said dont delute yourself with water and I got really scared and I had told one of my coaches about this and she said that I would of had to drank gallons of water for it to affect the test. So I took it again the next day during lunch and I got another negative. I felt then my left boob starting to like tingle and I got really scared. So I took another one on January 6 and I got another negative. I feel pressure down by my stomach/uterus while sleeping. I am on my schools cheerleading squad and one day I felt so much pressure while I was practicing. So in result I've had 3 negative E.P.T. pregnancy test results and I've been crying all day yesterday and all day today. My chemistry teacher, my coaches and friends say those tests are pretty accurate and I need to stop worrying. Could I have convinced myself I am pregnant? I don't know what to do. I don't have a doctor's appointment till January 23. I am so scared. Please someone tell me what i should do

Answer 1

Okay you cannot get pregnant from being fingered. In order for u to get pregnant you have to have vaginal intercourse and an exchange of fluids...his sperm has to fertilize ur egg. The stress is making u sick...U seriously need to take a Sex Ed class. Another thing if u if u were to have vaginal sex...n if u were to get pregnant u obviously couldn't deal with it...So u shouldn't be expermenting with sex until u r mature enough to deal with the consequences. TAKE A SEX ED CLASS!!!!!

Answer 2

You are not pregnant. You do, however, have a bad case of hypochondria. Not only can you not get pregnant from a finger (unless he had covered it in his sperm before inserting it), but you have had your period since you had any relations with him. Brown discharge after your period is totally normal. It is also normal for your discharge to smell differently at different times in your cycle. If it smells particularly bad and you are very itchy, you may have a yeast infection (or, if you forgot to remove a tampon during your last period, you could have toxic shock.... but then the discharge would really, really stink. Also, you'd be really sick).
However, it does sound like sex is a very scary thing for you. Perhaps you should slow things down with your boyfriend. Take some time to get to know your body. Take some sex ed classes and figure out how you like to be touched and how to achieve an orgasm. Knowledge and experience will eliminate your fears and end your psychosomatic symptoms. Furthermore, you will enjoy sex a whole lot more. By all means, still go to that doctor's appointment! Get checked for STDs, etc. to put your mind at rest. And ask lots of questions!! Ask questions about what kind of acts can get you pregnant. Ask questions about how to protect yourself from STDs. Ask about anything that is worrying you. But in the meantime, relax. There is nothing you can do about it right now, and you are only hurting yourself by worrying.

Answer 3

Well, of course you're not pregnant! Don't lose anymore sleep on that. That's not how you get pregnant!!

However, it seems to me that you are feeling guilty about what you let this boy do to you. Wait until you are much, much older to fool around. First of all, heavy petting does not get you pregnant but it can lead to sex, which you can become pregnant or get sexually transmitted diseases.

It doesn't sound like you are in a position to handle having a baby or the decisions that would come with pregnancy. Consider yourself lucky this time but don't do anything in the future with boys that will make you feel this way again.

Answer 4

You didnt wash your palms between that factor? you will possibly be able to desire to furnish her an sti if the incorrect micro organism have been given up there, yet she would be ready to't be pregnant. Sperm cant proceed to exist that long on a floor like your finger. Your secure, yet perhaps wash your palms greater in many cases? however the girl above me is incorrect approximately no sperm being in pre ***, there definately is and in case you have been you have intercourse and pull out, yet there became pre ***, then there may well be a raffle of having pregnant so be careful with that stuff. only needed you to nicely known that :)

Answer 5

First i really think you need to take a deep breath and calm down. If you keep thinking you might be your telling your mind that and its making things seem like you are you'll get more symptoms. Its a scary thing. Your going to have to go to the doctor. Not to scare you but i took 7 test within a month or so and my first one was positive 5 after that were negative and my 7th one that i took when i really was pregnant was positive so its kind of hard to believe them but i honestly think your not pregnant especially if he didn't *** at all its not possible

Answer 6

If your boyfriend's underwear were wet with semen, or he had any semen on his finger, guess what? You could be pregnant! But by the way you described your period, I seriously doubt it, and the EPT tests available everywhere are 99% accurate unless you drink a TON of water. If you are that concerned about getting pregnant, either stop fooling around, use condoms, or get birth control pills/patches/or contraceptive "ring" for use in your vagina. There are also spermicidal foams and jellies, and sponges that if used properly, prevent pregnancy. You sound pretty young, so my advice is quit fooling around!

Answer 7

You cant get pregnant from being fingered... if that were the case then i think in the condom isle at the store there would be finger condoms. You can only get pregnany if a mans sperm gets to the egg. And no you cant get pregnant from oral sex either.

As for the lack of period stress will do er. That could also be why your stomache feels pressured.

Answer 8

Relax.. pls.. if your man had semen on his hands, then put them inside you then yea you could get pregnant... but if you had your period a couple days after then you weren't even fertile and I doubt you're pregnant... you sound bloated from your period. PMS is a real thing you know, and it's not just being bitchy. Pregnancy tests are accurate if not taken too early, which you didn't, so you wasted your money and are going crazy for no reason... you're not pregnant. Maybe think twice about allowing a boy to do this to you since you're not mature (as in old) enough to deal with the concequences.

Answer 9

Well you are defintely NOT PREGNANT, unless you had intercourse(mans penis into the vagina), And it sounds like you want to be pregnant the way you talk because you are fixated on the results becoming positive, And the test are reliable, you never had the sex talk before to you can tell, talk to your parents, and get on birth control before you are pregnant.

Answer 10

you cant get preggers with your boy fingering you, and the reason you are so late on your period is because you are thinking about it too much, and your brain and body begins to feel it too. so it backs everything up too. so the best way so you can take a big lift off of your shoulders is by taking a test in the morning when you wake up and go pee. the reason for that because you stored a lot of pee for quite a while. so please try it out. and let me know who it went...... best of luck to you!!!