2007-01-07 06:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by That girl 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your asking this question and the way you word it:
"HARDLY know each other"
"touching me SO much"
"ONLY our first date"
reveals that you have a lot of reservations about how this man is treating you. If you are uncomfortable, let him know and let him know why. If you expect a man to treat on a first date, then let him know that. It sounds to me like you're feeling uncomfortable or taken advantage of and you need support from others here on ANSWERS to speak up and set your limits. Setting boundaries about what is okay or is not okay is very important in all relationships, and especially at the start of possible romantic ones. Speak your truth. If he doesn't like it, then he's not for you anyway.
2007-01-07 06:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that it is your right to say no to anybody no matter what. If it was your first date and you went dutch, then I would think it should have been a bit more casual and more of a friendly date. I would slow things down right away before things get out of control and you end up in a situation you don't want to be in. It takes some time to get to know a person and you definitely want to get to know him better before anything too romantic happens. Again, don't be shy or afraid to say no to a guy when he gets a bit too frisky too fast. If he gets mad then he's not anyone you want to spend time with anyway.
2007-01-07 06:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest...I would tell him to stop touching me before I would belt him. Second, like you said, you hardly know each other and tell him to stop because you feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable with his touching you. If he insists or comes up with some lame excuse to keep touching you...LEAVE!!! If he doesn't leave you alone, if you are in public, then find a restaurant, store or any other type of public place and call the police. Don't worry about making a scene, it is MUCH better to make a scene with witnesses than to be on the evening news as another person found dead in a park or somewhere.
2007-01-07 06:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion? You need to say NO! and mean it. Don't feel that you have to allow that sort of thing, even if he paid for the whole meal.
When men or women feel that paying for a date entitles them to have the right to sexual advances, they are, in all actuality, considering the other person a prostitute (as harsh as it sounds). Why? Because they just put a price on the right to use their bodies.
Say NO! Its your right.
2007-01-07 06:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like A sicko. if he cant respect your boundary's from the start he will never respect you as A person. Just some F.Y.I from A guy.
2007-01-07 06:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to let the door hit him on the way out!
2007-01-07 06:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by cheryl l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How rude! Dump him
2007-01-07 06:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Super Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth your time.
2007-01-07 06:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kogetsu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋