I believe that love is a promise of forever in a finite existence
2007-01-07 05:51:11 · 11 answers · asked by barry f 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
according to maslows triangle, ( and other similiar doctrines) self actualization is the highestlevel of human existance and one we all ultimately aspire to, and isnt love, the feeling that we are accpeted by others, part of our value system?
2007-01-07 07:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by cav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI THERE!!!!
I believe that when we love, truly love someone, we give our everything. We allow ourselves to be vunerable, we are transparent, we believe everything, expect to be corresponded with the same love and respect that we give. We many times become so involved we forget our own identity, and that is so dangerous.
I believe that every experience we have is for a growing of the spirit lesson.
We are most intense when in love, we are like a conquistador, going to search new grounds, discover all the treasures, give it all for all.
So when love goes bad, ( not really fail) when it is not all we expected, when it causes us pain, our soul is hurt. We feel like a wounded animal, with rage many times as strong as the love we feel within. The intensity is such we can not think straight.
Love is like a drug, a natual high.
Love light and peace
2007-01-07 14:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when you love someone enough to plan on all of your tomorrows with them, when that love is lost, so is that person you planned on becoming with your partner. You adapt in many ways, see yourself working with your lover as a housemate, parent, retired person. You show your world, your family, your friends that you are making changes to allow this growth to happen in your life...and then it is gone.
You lost the love, the relationship..and the person you planned on becoming, the dreams you planned on living, the children not born, the retirement not shared. You go to the people still in your life and explain a number of times, why you are now alone, and listen to them say sad little things that don't make any sense and don't make you feel any better.
If all of this didn't hurt, you wouldn't be human.
2007-01-07 15:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by PJ H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in love we invest many things and more often than not these investments are made recklessly. When an investment doesn't pay off it feels bad. So in love we hastily invest our emotions, our hearts, our souls if you will, and we invest them in extreme amounts expecting extreme payoffs. When this doesn't happen we feel extremely bad. However when it does payoff that I believe is true love and is worth all the pain it took to get to that point.
2007-01-07 13:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by tallspot07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because we take it personal. sometimes we are not meant to be with some people. we are just meant to be friends, enemies, or associates. whatever definitions you want to use. this issues are not your problem the problem is you and how you percieve the break-up or the change. release yourself and let life flow. love will restore itself in your life again. have a great day
2007-01-07 13:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by brandi_schuler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we must first love ourselves. When we truly love ourselves we experience the peace that brings the understanding our hearts require to cope with our feelings of pain and loss.
2007-01-07 14:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by iNeviTable fuTure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is like an addiction or obsession it hurt to be separated from something that you quote need it is a illusion of the mind and a powerful one
2007-01-07 13:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Squaresoft freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts. It just does. Love is weird like that.
2007-01-07 13:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Betty Good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people view it as an insult to themselves, and they're also upset that they can't be with them anymore.
2007-01-07 13:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Xenia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love never fails, if it does, it was something else, likely lust.
2007-01-07 13:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Immortal Cordova 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋