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I really dont mind bearing his child and bear full responsibility for the kid. I feel that at least there's still part of him with me. Should i do it?

2007-01-07 05:44:20 · 21 answers · asked by love_momo 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Sounds like you're doing it for a link with him, and no real thought of being a parent for the rest of your life and 100% responsible for another human being for the next 18 years...it's not all fun and games, as any single mother.

Your thought may not be silly, but he's a fool if he agrees to it.

2007-01-07 05:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1 0

How does HE feel about this? Or, were you just going to do it 'on the sly'? Taking full responsibility takes more than you think. And it's a little selfish of you to not consider that this baby may want a father as it grows up. Why not wait until you're in a stable relationship were both of you want the same thing? To have a child in order to 'keep a piece' of your ex with you is truly a poor excuse for entering into motherhood.

2007-01-07 05:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 2 1

No it will only give you more grief. He is x keep it that way. Children deserve to have two parents living together. There are plenty of nice men out there, and you will find the one that is for you eventually. Be patient. You will be much happier years down the road. Good luck with your life. I'm sorry you are a bit mixed up. Join clubs and get doing things, life can be so much fun always, if you want it to be.

2007-01-07 05:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by aloedistributor.com 2 · 1 1

Yes its a bad idea. Babies are very expensive. Wait till you're married to have a child even then its no guarantee the man will always be around but the chances will be greater.

2007-01-07 06:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0 1

NOPE, think of the kid, not yourself, don't be selfish, the child deserves two loving parents who are working together to make a happy home. It's all about "me" "my feelings" "what I want" "what I can do" "what I can handle" "what I do and don't mind" geez woman, think of the child.

2007-01-07 05:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1 0

Why bring a child in to this world with a bad start. Find a man to love and have his baby .

2007-01-07 05:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by christina3661@yahoo.com 2 · 1 1

Absolutly not. A child should not be a means to another end. "having a part of someone". Very selfish thinking on your part. All of these actresses have money to pay for nannies if things go wrong. You want a part of him? get a lock of his hair.

2007-01-07 05:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by momonster 3 · 2 1

Of course you should not have a baby with your ex--he is your EX. If you want to get back with him, try doing it in a way that doesn't bring an innocent baby into the mix!

2007-01-07 05:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 1 1

You are thinking only of your self and not giving one iota of realism towards the child and the childs need to have two parents.I wanted to have a child with my ex and did and the child still never got to bond with her father through no fault of mine but I was only thinking of my foolish girlish fantasies and had a child that never got to know her dad.

2007-01-07 05:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by georgia p 1 · 1 1

No, it's a lame idea. If you want a baby, find another man who can love both you and the baby...Time to forget this man and move on. Common sense.

2007-01-07 05:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Kaori 5 · 1 1

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