we are 5,5 years together, first he was married, now he is for 2 years divorced, but still living with his exwife. they have a daughter (7 yrs). he told me he loves me, but...do you think he will ever leave her for me?
2007-01-07 05:36:12 · 33 answers · asked by witch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi there!!
It is sad to hear how you are putting yourself second, honey you deserve better than this. Face it, he is not going to leave this woman, and I doubt is is only for their daughter that they are together.
she gives him something he needs and likes to still be living with her.
This can not be love. When someone loves you they respect you.
Stop and think, the same way he cheats on her, he can cheat on you.
leopards never change their spots they say,
I think he is bad news.
Start anew, respect yourself and begin to love yourself, realizing you do not need a man to be happy.
You have the power within
search for it,
meditate and think how your life would be without this guy, I really think you are better off without him
wishing you mental clarity to decide what is best for you and everyone
love light and peace
2007-01-07 05:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, listen from experience. If that man wanted you he would be living with you and not the ex. He can be with you and still take care of his child. He is just making a fool out of you. Don't mean to sound harsh but I subjected myself to a married man for two years. In the end, all you will feel is hurt and anger. You deserve so much more and I'm sure you are a beautiful person. Good Luck
2007-01-07 05:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cameka H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still with her after 2 years of being divorced there is a less likely chance that he won't leave her. I think he's keeping you there for the sex he wants you but still wants his ex-wife. As i see it the only reason he is say he loves you is so you'll stay and be on call when he needs a little extra sex..
2007-01-07 05:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by littlemiss55746 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope! He's obviously staying for the child. Or, he may still be in love with her. Whatever the reason, are you willing to put your life on hold until he decides what he wants? I would break it off right now and move forward. I don't know about you, but I'm defenitely NOT willing to share a man with anyone!
2007-01-07 05:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by kelstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve much better than this, and that poor kid....it sounds like he is trying to make things right for his child, and or he's just playing you. If he is staying for the sake of the child, you really shouldn't interfere, you should let him do what he feels is right and MOVE ON to someone who is not tied down to a kid. You deserve better. If he is just playing you, well then, MOVE ON, you deserve better. I honestly don't see what else could be going on in this situation, all the way around, you deserve better, and you shouldn't play any part in making a father chose between his kid and a woman.
2007-01-07 05:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistics indicate that he will NOT leave her. And what's more, if by a small chance he does leave her, statistics further indicate that he will NOT do it for you. More likely he'd leave for other reasons. And if by an even smaller chance he did leave for you, statistics indicate that he will leave you as well. Odds are way against you and he being together. I'd find someone new.
2007-01-07 05:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer: No.He is playing with you: with your feelings, your heart, and with your present ,and future life,that is clear here.
He does not love you indeed,and does not respect you at all.Think what is the future for you,living with a man who does not want to be free from his past life.He stuck in his past (his ex-wife),and he does not even think in try to be free.Think logic,put out your feelings for a moment,and think what future you will have with this man.All is up to you.Good luck.
2007-01-07 05:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope! He should have moved out long ago..why is he living with her and not with you??? I kicked my ex out and he is living with the gal he cheated on me with. No way on planets earth would I take him back. We have 4 kids by the way. So kids shouldn't be a issue. If he hasn't moved out by now..chances are he won't. You need to move on. Good luck!
2007-01-07 05:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorced for 2 years and still living with his ex. dont bother
2007-01-07 05:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no.
If you've put up with this situation for over 5 years, why would he?
He may well 'love' you, but right now, you are just convenient.
What do YOU want out of life?
2007-01-07 05:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by flywho 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋