accidents,natural reasons,sudden happenings etc
2007-01-07 04:41:44 · 11 answers · asked by ganesh n 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your question is to broad, depends on the event. If there is something I can do to make it better I will, If not, I will pray for strength. I will pray for strength either way.
2007-01-07 04:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by June smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won react in-front of the person who told me about the news. However when I am alone, I would ponder hard and think about how should I be reacting..
- my real life story -
I had a friend who told me that my ex-bf who is with me for 7 yrs had got married.. and i was glad that I din had a big reaction that moment cos on the next day I found out that the person who told me the news actually wanted to see my sad react..
2007-01-13 11:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by tiramisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i live in a war torned area where every day you watch news that hurts much. I do complain to God a lot. He has to do something. Only thing i feel i can do is to teach human values to school children. i succeed to some extend. The problem is i am not a teacher attached to a school and not getting enough chance to help children.
2007-01-07 12:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by DIm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean as in death or divorce or even your job? That is a vague question. But speaking for myself, I am losing my best friend to Ovarian Cancer. She is in a hospice house and it is killing me to watch her die away everyday. When they announced that she may not live past next week, I was devastated. I'm engaged so I can't tell you about divorce, but I have lost jobs before...not due to poor performance. So it does differ to the situation and the person. I hope this satisfies your curiosity.
2007-01-07 12:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's weird how the mind acts in situations. My dad had a bad accident and almost died last year. After I saw him in the ICU, I walked out and told my friend, " I have to leave, I have to get out of here and go somewhere." my mind froze. She followed me out of the hospital and then I kinda came to my senses, bucked up and walked back into the hospital to confront the situation head on. I still dont remember telling her these things, I've blocked it out. But that's how I deal....lay down, gather strength and then come up fighting.
2007-01-12 21:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by C Shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sh*t that actually meant something to you...always causes some sort of reaction in a dramatic fashion
2007-01-07 12:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by RoseOfTheEnvious 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i always feel like i wanna be alone so i can think deeply in the news...to believe it...to think of what should i do...how should i react...coz i hate surprises..the good and the bad..and when someone surprises me by a bad news...i always have sometime with myself so i can understand what's happening...
2007-01-07 13:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by misk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its been 2 years since i`d lost my boyfriend and when my parents gave me the news i just fell unconscious for 2 hours...
and till now am expecting him to come to me.....
i think you never know what your reaction will be in such moments...........i never knew till it happenned to me
2007-01-07 12:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its like a death...then i would cry and physically show that im hurt...otherwise i tend to keep it all inside and b the strong one that holds everything together..
2007-01-07 12:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by hot12flirt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grieve but life must con't
2007-01-12 19:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋