do black men and boys date white women for a specific reason?

Question

i have noticed first hand, that a large percentage of black boys and men will date white women for all the wrong reasons. the white women will put up with the abuse, will support them, will wait on them hand and foot. and allow them to run around. i am not asking this question out of stupidity, or trying to insult any one. please be honest with your answer.

Answer 1

I have never known a black guy who didn't cheat on a white woman. As a general rule, once a white woman has a black, white men will not take her back all because she wanted the 'black myth'. Multi-culturalism has destroyed this country.
To counter ¡El lobo del norte del fuego, blacks are more racist and violent than any other race here in America. When it comes to their perception of women, all they see is pink, if you know what I mean. A race war is inevitable in this nation and white women who date non-whites will be treated accordingly

Answer 2

I think some Black men date White women for these reasons. (from what I've heard)

1. Love (reason to Marry)
2. Not afraid to experiment when it comes to sex
3. Less submissive (easier to control)
4. Quiet (not loud talkers)
5. Quicker climb up the corporate ladder (with a White wife)
6. Status symbol / ego
7. Curiosity / taboo (reason to date that person)
8. You like that person (reason to date that person)

I would like to know what percentage of Black men date or marry White women for reasons #1, 2, 3 and 6?

I'm a Black female and I actually had a White female co-worker say the following to me once, "One Black guy told me that Black women are loud". I didn't say a word.
I could have easily said, "One Black guy told me that White women are easy".
Some Black women and White women are easy, loud and talk too damn much.

Have you guys even seen this trailer for the movie "Tired Black Man?" This trailer discusses the same thing this thread is about.
(Now it's Black men's turn to exhale)
http://tiredblackman.com/

I'm a computer geek and support computer networks and PCs for a living.
I'm always been quiet but then again it depends who I'm around.
If I feel the need to strike up a conversation or to start talking then fine.
I've even had co-workers at lunch tell me, "You are quiet".
The next time I might tell this co-worker, "You are loud".
(This is a White female co-worker who always says I'm quiet.)
I should flip the script one day and say, "Don't you know all Black women are loud?" That would probably shut her up.

Answer 3

Just be happy with your choice in women and don't worry about what others think about your choice. Both me and my ex husband are black and dated outside our race before we were married and are doing the same now that we are divorced. As long as his girlfriend is kind and maternal to my children, I don't care what race she is. He says he feels the same. By the way, we divorced for MANY reasons. Drug and alcohol abuse as well as being underemployed and purposely blowing the only employment opportunity he had to step up and help me insure our family's financial future was secure was sabotaged because it was inconvenient. He blew a drug test for a career that would have helped our family tremendously financially. He was fine with me working two jobs because he didn't want to do anything "back breaking" or "hard". He never finished college although he had 10 years to do so during our marriage. Every situation is different. That was mine. But I'm not on here blaming black men and making blanket statements about them. I just stated the facts about the one I was married to for almost 11 years.

Answer 4

they date them for the same reason why asian women date black men or any other interracial pairing. Its different. There is this odd forbidden fruit thing that everyone is aware of when it comes to dating, generally they date out of their race for spite on their upbringing. And eventually they come to find that women are women and men are men despite their race.

Answer 5

Initially love didn't have boundaries but it was taboo because of societal views on colored people. Thus racism came forward.
Since it became a challenge for those involved to break taboos ....

Abuse is not specific only to black men dating white women but also viceversa and in any community and age.

Let's not fall into stereotypes here please.

Answer 6

White females like dating black guys as well. I mean .. I guess it is a curiosity issue.
People get sick, sometimes, to be dating their own culture or race, and they find quiet interesting dating people who don't belong to their believes, race, or custom.
Plus I bet you DO know what is being said 'bout black guys, don't you. "ONCE you turn black, there's no back" ... or something like this.

Answer 7

because black guys are smart enough to look beyond color. i believe white men are more racist than white girls, look at the kkk most of them are guys. cant belive some of y'all answerin the question are so daft to uanswer in a racist way. it's so sad that the world has still got racist pipo. white pipo should be grateful that we forgave them, we can be friends with them and even marry them. how many of you would forgive someone who treated your family like dirt?

Answer 8

My decease husband worked everyday of his life.He didn't smoke or drink. My son of 18 works all day and goes to college at night. There was never any abuse.But we didn't live in the city either. You have abuse in all colors in the cities.So I believe u don't know what your talking about.My husband was black.

Answer 9

I have a few African American male friends and their answer for dating white women was that black girls were too loud, obnoxious, and ghetto for them. I'm not saying that to be racist, that is the honest answer they gave me.

Answer 10

LMAO Yeah right..i'm gonna LMAO one more time!