It all started back a couple years ago when I got into a fight with my best friend Rick. It wasn't an arguement but a fist fight because I flipped out over something stupid. I apologized, yet things never seemed to be the same ever again. He moved on with a more popular group of people and I was left behind, almost as if I was never a part of his life. Now things are weird and we barely talk, but when we do talk, it's by far the most uncomfortable thing in my life. Second part, I have a friend that I've known since I was pretty much an infant. We've been best friends all the way through school and all of a sudden now, we don't hang out or speak anymore, whatsoever. I find this very amusing because the people I have been ditched for by this kid in the last couple of weeks, have been former friends of mine that this kid is now friends with. It always happens this way with me now and I don't know what to do. I don't kno where my friends have gone and I am lost without them.
2007-01-07 04:09:28 · 10 answers · asked by igotcha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I hear you. Sometimes, the friendships we have when we are younger, better suit us then than now. People change, times change, etc. I have also experienced this too, and it is painful. I think it hurts our self esteem and worth because we feel like we're not that important anymore to our friend.
Just remember, when God shuts a door, He opens a window. Maybe you will meet new and better friends. Just be patient.
I just recently lost a friend due to an argument that her mother created. She is choosing not to associate with me anymore.
Sure, it hurts, but I realize that her selfish motives are not what I need right now in my life either.
Good luck.
2007-01-07 04:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to think back to what was going on when you started to lose your friends, before the fist fight. have u been ignoring them? If you change then they will change, and then everyone becomes alone. I'm sure there is a reason that this all happened, all you have to do is figure out what went wrong and fix it!! You may need them one day. Only your friends know the real you!
Hope it helps!!
Good Luck!
2007-01-07 04:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by septdev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you keep loosing freinds, maybe it is you. Not to hurt your feeling but you might need to look at why they are not hanging around you anymore. No one is better than anyone else. Maybe you are not picking people that make good freinds. I have always heard that if people want to walk out of your life let them. People change and you most of the time you don't stay friends will all of your friends forever. Work on the ones that stay and let the ones that want to go leave.
2007-01-07 04:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by healergirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My friends and i have all pretty much drifted too...it happens. As people get older, their relationships change. If your friends are true friends, they'll always be there when you need them, just not necessarily when you WANT them. My best friend is never without her bf, and i have to deal with that. I hardly see her because of him, and im ok with that because shes happy. If i need her, she'll be there. It just the way life works. People drift apart, and you have to move on, roll with the punches, and make new friends. :) Now, the only friends i really have are my roomies. And i dont even like them that much.
2007-01-07 04:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on or fist fight rick again, no one likes you so you got nothing to lose specialy if you win.
2007-01-08 13:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by T razz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a phase unless you're already 95...
change the bad things about you, stay good, then find new friends.
2007-01-07 04:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Beanie.beanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax, just find some new ones, or talk it through with them. i'm always here to chat. Y! IM.
2007-01-07 04:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they all heard about your temper and so don't think you are worth hanging around with.
2007-01-07 04:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont feel sad hope u will get them back all and u must have controll on ur anger
2007-01-07 04:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends.
2007-01-07 04:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Shin San 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋