This is going to sound very insecure, but true reality on my part. I'm a 190 lbs 5'9 guy who works out and runs daily, watches what I eat and etc. The only thing is, I'm a total nice guy. Not a mean bone in my body. My face even reflects "nice guy" ( i have semi shaggy brown hair, and always shaved face)..
Is there a way for me to harden up, and not look like a freaking pansy? Mature responses only, please.
2007-01-07 04:02:13 · 12 answers · asked by Barrett!!! 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'm thinking of Jason Statham when I think tough guy.
2007-01-07 04:03:59 · update #1
You sound terrific - don't change to meet someone else's criteria. There are tons of women who adore a man who is a "man" in thought and deed...hairy, nasty guys are, eventually, boring, if not dangerous. I bet people love you just the way you are. Now - YOU learn to love you and everything will fall in place.
2007-01-07 04:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by SUZI S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave your head, grow a goatee and crack your neck a lot in public. Oh, and smoking cigarettes is a good one too. Remembered some more, tattoos, black clothing, wristbands with spikes, stare a LOT, dont ever sit down at parties, just stand against a wall or something.
But wait, I forgot to ask. Why do you want to seem like a badarse? Those guys are clowns, girls may appear to like those guys at this age but in the end those fellas will end up lonely and looking for ways to be nicer on the internet to pick up girls.
Stay cool, and dont let people change you.
2007-01-07 04:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave your head, grow a beard, wear sunglasses, tattoos running from your neck to your head. Listen to slayer, wear combat boots with shorts. Always be sizing people up, when you walk into a room the first thing on your mind when you look at every person for the first time has to be "if it came down to it, I could kill you". This kind of mentality shows up on your face whether you realize it or not. Scars, doesn't matter how you get them, have a lot of scars. Always have at least 3 scabs on your knuckles. Go to a big party, at least 50 people, and just beat the crap out of someone, go sickhouse, send him to the ER. Stop blinking, nothing is scarier than someone who never blinks.
2007-01-07 04:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jason Statham is hot, no question ... but I can't imagine him patiently tolerating my occasional fits of PMS & irrationality, or holding my hand just to be touching me when we're out, or remembering our anniversary and think it's important, or emptying the dishwasher, or making me feel as though he feels lucky to be with me, or many of the other things that build long-term trust, respect and love.
Tough guys are attractive in the short-term. In day to day life, I want someone capable of talking about his feelings when he needs to, someone who wants to think about a future with me, someone who can commit and be faithful.
I think you'll find that you're willing and able to "toughen up" for the right person and stand by the people who count. Just be you, you sound really special.
2007-01-07 04:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 06:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude John..is a total wuss...now do you want to be a bad ash..or just look the part..you could body build or get a tattoo..that what some sissy I know did..dude take some form of martial art..and learn to defend your self..why do you want to look tough..I know this punk that stears at people with his ugly eyes...well him and I had some words and he back down like a sissy..you see if you can kick ash..you don't need to look like it..
2007-01-07 04:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not shaving your face. I mean don't grow hair to look like a gorilla but look scruffy. That might help you out. Spike your hair too...Maybe cut it and spike it up....NOT like a mohawk. Ew that would be gross. But that is all I can really say. Good Luck!
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♥ Haley ♥
You shouldn't change yourself to meet other peoples needs. Its not right. So I wouldn't change because you seem like a nice dude to me.
2007-01-07 04:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Haley ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend some time around some toughys first! learn the slang..
2007-01-07 04:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how you fell i have the same problem. But just be who you are. You are not the only one in the boat
2007-01-07 11:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by Swinkster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Mexico.Get thrown in jail.2step process
2007-01-07 05:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by sipppihercoldsaursasaurus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋