I've been asked something which i found really insulting
"Do your parents know you are pregnant?"
My parents are my best friends and I'm married for over a year..so I'm not doing anything wrong tht question was put in like i'm doing something wrong...
What's the worst thing you've been asked?
2007-01-07 03:59:19 · 20 answers · asked by PeTiTe_Mummy 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
a woman walked up to me as i was having coffee with friends (decaf) and said, "aren't you a little young to be having a baby?"
hahaha i was 22 and married. when my grams was 22 she had 2 kids already!! and was married.
people are rude. they think just because you are pregnant, they can say anything.
i always hated the people who asked "when are you due?" and the proceeded to reach out as if to rub your belly.
BACK OFF!
lol!!!
2007-01-07 04:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by just that girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably the most annoying questions I hve been askedhave to do with partying. People are so stupid sometimes they will call me at 3am HEY!!! What are you dooooin? What the hell do you think I am doing I'm a pregnant women I am TRYING to sleep! Or they ask me things like did you party this weekend? Omg we had so much fun! Um no I spend my weekends chillin with my mom and neice. I wasn't partying.
I've had some rude comments. Ok I don't think I am very big for how far along I am. There was this woman who looked like she wore bigger clothes than me in line one day ask me when I was due. I was like in Feb. Almost half expecting her to say oh you look so small becuz thats what everyone had told me when I would tell them my due date...This lady blurts out Omg really?!?!? You look like you are about to burst! And this was before! WAY before! Right when started showing!
Another time my supposed best friend at my baby shower told me I needed to put that cookie down becuz she could see me getting fatter as I ate it. I was shocked! I think she was feelng left out though becuz I had some of my other friends around. And she was upset before our friend Lori never asked her for a play date. (Her son my neice. I watch my neice like everyday cuz my sister works at nights and sleeps during the day.) But still I swear rude people. I know exactly what you mean.
2007-01-07 13:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was at my brother's b-day party my mom had with her side of the family... a few aunts on this side of the family think they are high and mighty, rude, and selfish.... anyways, I was talking to another aunt (a nice one), about how old her daughter was when she first had her baby- and my aunt said 23. I was like, "cool, that's how old I am." One of my rude aunts was like, "So does that make it right?" (I wasn't married at the time... we married later, but didn't want it to be about the baby, but out of our love for one another... not only that, we both have divorced parents.. so we really really wanted to make sure this was right for us first.) Anyways, that REALLY ticked me off... she had no right to say that because her daughter divorced and re-married.... I replied," Well actually yes, because I will love my baby with all my heart, and both my boyfriend and I are doing everything we possibly can to make this work, and it is working out so far!"
Saying my baby wasn't "right" was terrible of her. I would never look at my baby- or any baby let alone in that way. My baby was a miracle to me, not planned yes, but he's the BEST thing that has ever happened to me or my now husband! People are quick to judge, and it's wrong. Just as they judged you in this case... who cares if you have told your parents- they probably thought you looked very young- people always think I look way younger than I am... but still, it's not fair to judge. I feel these people dont' live very happy lives.
2007-01-07 12:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by m930 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing I'm asked is whether or not I planned the pregnancy. I'm married and have a son but even if I was single, it's a horribly rude question to ask anyone.
2007-01-07 12:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess since I have 4, with the last one they would say "Are you done?, what number is this?" I would tell them I do not remember asking you for help or support with the first 3. Some people just do not know when they should keep their mouth shut. They need to resort to the preshcool saying "If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say nothing at all"
2007-01-07 12:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lady X 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was asked by my mother and my sister to abort my first baby because she was mixed...that was the worst for me. thank God they regret that and now love both of my children to death. Still upsetting to this day though =( also, i had a kiscarriage 2 years ago and with my recent pregnancy the first thing my sis asked me was "are u still pregnant" like wishing miscarriage upon my child...crazyness
2007-01-07 12:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is no where near as bad as yours but when my mom was pregnant with me my younger cousin, being a child kept asking my mom questions about the baby, finally he asked how the baby got into her stomach, she said it asked me too many questions so i ate it! My poor cousin really thought that was how babys got made for the LONGEST time!!! lol
2007-01-07 12:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by *STAR* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me it was "do you know who the father is?"
I was 18 when I actually started showing but still looked about 15 in my face. Everytime I would go grocery shopping people asked me this. My husband worked nights and slept during the day so a lot of times I went shopping by myself or with his mom. I guess people assumed that when I was with my mother in law that she was actually my mom or something...lol. People are very rude even when they don't see it themselves.
2007-01-07 12:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
alot of people, that im not even close friends with have came right out and asked me - "who's is it?" after being totaly offended the first few times people asked me this, i learned just to smile and respond "it's mine" . As far as i was concerned if the people who were asking didnt know me well enough to know who the father of my child is then it realyl cannot be any of their business.
on the other hand one of the funniest things people ask me is "so when are you due now?" as if it changes from week to week lol
do not get me started on people touching my bump...!!!
2007-01-07 13:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by kimberley123 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was 45lbs overweight, someone asked me when I was due! Needless to say, I wasn't pregnant but I was hurt and humiliated and within 6 months, I lost 50lbs. I guess I should thank that person...
2007-01-07 12:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Milkaholic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋