My daughter Isabella is 4. My daughter Manuela is 2. Isabella's dad died while i was pregnant. Then I got married to my husband now we are going through a divorce. he moved out already. and this guy that i have known for well over 2 years now. asked me out, i told him that i cant go out because my kids and everything and I invited him to come over and meet the kids. the kids really took to him and he's in love with them. I really like him and he really likes me and I would like to know how to go about this?
2007-01-07 03:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by Lucky Mommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lyndsey M. I am getting divorced because he had an affair and we already tried working it out...3 times
2007-01-07 03:44:27 · update #1
wow! first of all slow down, I think you need some time to be by your self and not continually on the rebound. Why are you getting a divorce, are you sure you can't work it out? Please, for your kids sake don't get involved with another man yet, it really is hard on them when men come in and out of their lives so frequently. You need to take some time to work on yourself, deal with the death and your pending divorce in a constructive way.
2007-01-07 03:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never was married, me and my girlfriend are planning to get married in September of 2008, my girlfriend has a baby and I love her baby just as much as I would love my own kid(s). This guy that you knew for 2 years, why don't you start dating for about 2 to 3 years and see how things go from there, and y'all marry?
2007-01-07 03:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by AARON BLACK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need some alone time before getting involved again. Your hormones are all over the place right now. I know you must be afraid of going it alone, but I think its best. Hopefully you have family to help you through this stressful time. Another guy is not the answer. Not yet.
2007-01-07 03:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry..... You definately have your hands full. The best way to go about it is SLOWLY. You've been through so much, so soon, you need some down time & Me time. Take of yourself. Everything will work out, believe in that!!!!
2007-01-07 03:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about yourself and take care of your kids. All you're doing is confusing them by bring different men around all the time.
2007-01-07 03:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy life and enjoy your kids i have two and i wasnt ready for the first one but once you get through all the pain there the best things god could give you if he loves u and your kids give him a chance he might be the one.
2007-01-07 03:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by jonathan allen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you just take a break and be a mother for a while.
2007-01-07 03:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
geesh...you need to slow down.....get divorced before you hook up with this other guy....good luck
2007-01-07 03:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it slow.... very slow. keep dating him and if he cares about you he will be patient and understanding.
2007-01-07 03:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋