My mother seems to love loathing me. Every after school activity, every social event, every babysiting gig has been taken away from me. It's like she loves to see me be misirible. Recently, she told me I was a vial ***** after asking for her to pay half for the trip to a concert hall New York my band recently was accepted into. I am broke because I cannot work and so I asked for her to help pay for my piano lesson and she denyed that as well. I just can't seem to do anything right in her book no matter what I am doing. In addition to this, she seems to be bipolar. When she is happy, everything is good in the world I am free from punishment no matter what I do. When she is in a bad mood, the whole world must bow at her toes or they are cast out to hell. It is very frusterating because I don't know when she is in a bad mood or good mood that day and I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP!
2007-01-07 03:27:51 · 6 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is there anyone who can intervene, your father, a grandparent, aunt, uncle, etc? I'm sure that she doesn't hate you but she sounds like she needs help. Good luck!
2007-01-07 03:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take your issues to a counselor at school, a doctor, or a minister of any orthodox faith. All parents want to prevent their chidren from making big mistakes that could change their lives permanently. But judging what is dangerous is always difficult for parents and for children.
2007-01-07 11:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Camper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mom is going through some depression. Write her a letter telling her how you feel and how it hurts you and put it on her pillow so she'll see it right before she goes to bed. Meanwhile start trying to avoid her so she'll see you don't want to be around her because of how she's treating you.
2007-01-07 11:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she needs to stop being so snootie!!!! It's bad enough that she has this disorder but she needs to see a counselor or something or else she is going to drive you crazy too!!!!
2007-01-07 11:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be correct..
She may be Bi Polar in which case, you are not going to
get stable & rational behavior from her..
She does not loath / hate / dislike you...
She is mentally ill...
2007-01-07 12:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry 2 say this but........yo mama is crazy
2007-01-07 16:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋