I'm single and met this married woman last year. She's really cool and I like her as a friend. I visited her two times before I was told by the husband not to visit without him being there. He told me if I wanted to keep the friendship with his wife he should be present also. Well, I didn't do it. I saw her again without him. They faught over it. In fact, I took a trip with his wife to Mexico over Christmas and new years 2006 while he stayed and watched the kids. She told him she was going on business. When he found the pictures of us hugging on the beach. He got angry and they argued. She's really just a friend. Not my lover. Well she keeps calling me, because, she is my friend. Only now she is sneaking the calls behind her husbands back. When he finds out about the calls, he argues with her. I mean give me a break. We're only talking right? I have a business selling homes in Mexico and she wants to work with me. Can't he just understand that? What should I do?
2007-01-07 03:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by david419_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I really think he is being a jerk.
2007-01-07 03:26:46 · update #1
Are you for real? you really can't see why he is mad? OK they are a married couple. Why is she hiding things from him? you see all of this would be OK AS LONG AS SHE INCLUDED HIM IN IT. She should not be keeping this friendship you both have separate. Come on how would it look to you if you were in his shoes? You can't blame him for being mad when he finds pictures of his wife (who he thought was on a business trip hugging another man etc). She lied to him, it sounds like they both have a trust and communication issue. Therefore, I would not get involved, let them sort it out between them, after all they have kids, do you really want to stand in the way of that? I a not saying your intentions are wrong. It's just they clearly have issues between them. Just back off, let them sort their lives out and go find a g/friend.
2007-01-07 03:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well after all it is his wife,and it really don't look good that she and you are going behind his back talking and seeing each other, even going on trips together, why not just include him in on the business that you two are dealing with? Her as a wife shouldn't be hiding anything from her husband. how do you know her feelings towards you are different from just a friendship? and if the friendship thing is just a made up story, because in reality you both have fallen for each other,and her being married what makes you think if she cheats on her husband with you ,why wouldn't she cheat with someone else discussing business with her? I say back off, till she can be a little bit more honest with her husband.
2007-01-07 11:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real? You take his wife to mexico and take picutures of it? Tell, me how hugging his wife on the beach helps you to close on home sales? You obviously don't give a rats a*s*s about the husband,and are playing with the wife. Leave them alone and get a g/f
2007-01-07 11:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kidding me, right.if you were married or had a girl friend would it be ok if i could hang out with her?you could stay home and watch her kids ,while i take her to mexico. that would be real nice.i would not ask my wife to watch my kids while i took my girl friend to mexico. i think thats going a little to far.you need to stop before you break them up. there are single wemen everywhere.find a new friend.this will only end in a bad way.good luck
2007-01-07 11:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by urban Legend 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This woman is bad news. The husband doesn't trust her for obvious reasons. Unless you're ready to be a dad to those kids distance yourself from her. This can only lead to bad things. Trust me, I know.
2007-01-07 13:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by rusty_1491 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should sneak out to a bridge over a river & kiss. Then go to a movie together.
2007-01-07 12:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let them resolve their problems first....then try to talk to her about this situition between you and her husband. You should also talk to her husband about this and let him know what you guys are just friends and no more than that:). Good Luck.
2007-01-07 11:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offcourse he's being a jerk, for not stopping this nonsense happenin with his spouse..........the bad part is that she's herself involved in this crap..........or may be both are trying to get hold of you b;y doing a small little drama .......who knows?
2007-01-07 11:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by mobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you went away with her and didn't fuc her, YOU ARE NUTS
2007-01-07 11:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by obnoxioustroll5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋