my boyfriend ohmy god such a nice boy, all time listening what i am saying, doing watever i m saying,and never ever does wat i ask him not to do.now the situation has bcome such worst rhat he is alwaz sitting in home and talking with me in phone, if he just wanna go to the field infront of our home once i dont even give its permission, for ur convenience i m telling u that we are neighbors.and our relation is about 5 years old.still we love eachother so intimately and whenever we meet we feel like a new relation. He never stops me doing anything, he is so caring and uderstanding, i wanna make him happy too, i dont wanna ruin his life bt i m so short temperedand get angry very easily what can i do plzzz help me in making our life more heavenly.
2007-01-07 03:23:38 · 17 answers · asked by StylishT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you still have to discover the real beauty of love, TRUST. You have to trust him and let him be a little. If you don't eventually he's gonna claim his freedom, and it's gonna suck! Plus, the moment love turns into possesion it's not love anymore.
2007-01-07 03:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you know that you are short tempered then you are the only one that can do something about it. You need to work on how you act since you will probably end up ruining your relationship. One reason that people are possessive is because they are not secure in the relationship. Just think about how much he loves you and enjoy what you have together and stop treating him like he is a pet. Let him live a little and you will both have a better relationship for it.
2007-01-07 03:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop being so demanding of him. He is obviously happy to go along with you but if you feel like you are putting pressure on him by making him do exactly what you tell him then you are controlling him in the worst way and it will be only a matter of time before he realises and he will be gone.
2007-01-07 03:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first step is admitting you have a problem. Just try to catch yourself when your temper gets out of control. It's a gradual process.
2007-01-07 03:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Curious George 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, do I feel sorry for him. But it seems like you two are a perfect match. he is a wishy-washy,little weakling of a guy, and you are a jealous insecure,donimatrix who only cares for being a control freak. You seem like the perfect couple.
2007-01-07 03:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray about it and if he cares about you so much you should do the same for himand stop being short tempered and angry. Thats selfish
2007-01-07 04:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Classique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get mad when he goes elsewhere. I don't know how old you are but one day he will have to work and you won't be there. You have to learn to trust him. If your relationship is going well you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
2007-01-07 03:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Todd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are insecure and immature. Your bf will dump you in time if he ever gets some balls and you don't get your shyt together. Wimp and Witch ... the perfect match.
2007-01-07 03:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Need to look at yourself, the anger is yourself, be good to yourself sweetie God dont make trash!
2007-01-07 03:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by candykiisses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have some insecurity issues. Running his life isn't something you should be trying to do.
2007-01-07 03:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋