My husband has always wanted me to let him try it with me but I think it's gross, unnatural, and it really just looks like it hurts. Besides, it wouldn't make him much different than a gay guy would it? I feel bad by telling him no all the time and I hate to seem like some kind of prude. What's the deal with this? Is it that bad?
2007-01-07 03:20:09 · 19 answers · asked by ashley b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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I've done it with my husband. It doesn't hurt if you take time and use a lot of lube. But, if your really don't want to, then he should respect that as well.
2007-01-07 05:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by katheek77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is certainly more dangerous than normal sex, for a number of reasons. In general it will also be less pleasurable for the woman. However if you do it right you should be fairly safe.
Also, it doesn't make him gay in any way. Homosexuality involves sexual attraction towards people of the same gender; anal sex with people of the opposite gender has nothing to do with it.
2007-01-07 03:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people enjoy anal sex. Couple bad things are the spread of E.Coli into his urethra (can lead to infection) and pain on your end (no pun intended) of the spectrum
2007-01-07 03:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by hiclaude 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if it is not your cup of tea your husband should respect this, to each his own, love making should be enjoyable,adventurous ,tender and at times having Kinky sex makes the marriage go around. is it just that he also has never done this either and he is curious? if you do indulge lubrication req
2007-01-07 03:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't understand that you say no ask him what he would say if you put your finger up his butt. Watch him react to that and then say to him that a finger is smaller than his tool.
It will hurt regardless of what people say, I had a girlfriend once who's boyfriend did it to her and she said it was a really horrible experience.
2007-01-07 03:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hurts the first couple of times.
2016-05-23 03:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are that set against it, tell him it's ok if he does it with someone else. No sense in depriving him if you are inhibited.
Actually go to the internet and look up anal intercourse and inform yourself and your husband on techniques, expectations, etc. Plenty of lube and patience is the key.
You might like it and you then have the option of exploring a little further such as doing your husband with a strap-on.
2007-01-07 03:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Lubrication and patience is the key , let him try! But remember lubrication and patience.
Painful if he just rams it in, he has to go at your pace first then when you are comfortable you set the pace.
2007-01-07 03:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by lasdoom 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Mine always wanted it too until I told him that when he let someone do that to him then he could do it to me. He hasn't asked in a long time!
2007-01-07 03:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
u have a good point there, sometimes in the internet, they are some negative sites out there.... i think about sex too...but its not like im gonna do it now, not for a long time......
2007-01-07 03:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋