My husband of 8 years (3 kids later) cheated on me and basically broke my heart. He doesn't love me but managed to lead me on for 8 years. Now I'm going through the pain, hearbreak and anger. I need to get on with my life, but out of curiosity- will he ever get what he deserves? Will he really reap what he sowed? I'd love ana nswer to this.
2007-01-07 03:14:49 · 10 answers · asked by ayquechula 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
....yes sweetie.....and the best revenge is living well...so pick yourself up go forward....
2007-01-07 03:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by chillie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time once a cheater always a cheater and they end up being sad in the end because they will end up not being happy in the end because of what they did in their past. I think when doing good deeds to others good deeds come your way one way or another. I would not focus so much on him living a miserable life I would focus more on myself and get back into the swing of things. The best revenge is moving on with your life and keeping yourself busy. Start dressing and looking your best and start going out and having fun. Show him that he is not needed and you can do all of it by yourself (except for the child support). Be the best mother to your children that you possibly know. Do not call him unless there is a problem with your child. As he sees that you moved on with your life and he is not needed the more bad he will feel for leaving you.
2007-01-07 06:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what love is. He doesn't love himself, proved by his actions. He has been really immature, and selfish. When he grows up and realizes what he chose to give up, yes he will suffer the pain. His children have been watching and feeling all of this turmoil too. He may think he has pulled it off without their knowing, but he is dead wrong. I would not like to be around when his house of cards falls. Don't worry about him, take care of yourself and your children. The Best revenge is living well. Put your emotions aside while you take care of business ie...Filing for Divorce
2007-01-07 03:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can forgive him sincerely and trust in God, then Jesus will fight your battle for you. That means when you can say i did all that i could do in that marriage, and he was not sincere, but i can forgive him and move on with my life. then God will work in your life and restore your heart, and everything you have lost. my husband walked out on me when my child was in the hospital. he already had another woman and had moved her and her 3 kids into a luxourious home. meanwhile me and my daughter (baby was in nicu) lived in a roach, flea, ant infested basement apartment. all his family knew what was going on and in fact gave him the messages to always stay in contact with her even while i was pregnant and the baby was in the hospital.
i am still here, the baby is still here, and my daughter went on to go to school and is now a liicensed medical ltech. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, hold your head up high, and keep it movin! realize that you are a woman in your own right. you have a right to feel pain, hurt and anger, but do not let it consume you. let it go, forgive and keep your strength to raise your children so that they will turn out well. dont be bitter. let it go!
2007-01-07 03:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by PhatBeatz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, yes, he will eventually. It may not be what you think is revenge, but even the simplest thing, like you moving on and being completely happy with yourself could be revenge enough.
2007-01-07 03:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband he didn't love him self,to proof that he is good enough he cheated on him self it is nothing wrong with you,and what goes around comes around all the time,i saw this in my life,i never experience cheating,but other things,and they always got back ten times more,just believe in that and you will see that,good luck,move on many fish in the sea.
2007-01-07 03:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what i have seen, Karma always gets them! unfortunitly it is not in the same way it got you but it will happen. More than likely it will be more finacially for him, like his car blows up or a family member you don't like but he loves dies. you know soemthig like that! BELEIVE ME it will happent to him!
keep your chin up!
2007-01-07 03:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may. Sometimes people get exactly what is coming to them. But they don't always.
2007-01-07 03:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will get remarried to an absolut b**** and will turn in to a fat, bald,farting, burping gross blob with a remote glued to his hand and become a couch ornament, you will relise wow thank god you cheated on me!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-07 03:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
karma will get him.......
2007-01-07 03:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by i pack a 44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋