2007-01-07 02:59:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Well yea... i mean most realtionships these days are based on the first time the couple met or set eyes on each other..
Yea i believe dere is love at first sight
~*CHELLEY~*~
2007-01-07 03:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..it depends on the person...if u are looking for a girl/boy and suddenly in a bar or something, u find the perfect one...and u feel like that person is your one...then i can say that Love at first sight does exists...but For your info, love has no rules,no limits....anyone can love, no matter where u r or who u r!
2007-01-07 03:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is lust at first sight and intense attraction at 1st sight. My definition of love would not work between 2 people who know absolutely nothing about each other.
2007-01-07 03:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An example of love at first sight is when new parents look at their baby for the first time. So if this love exists than adults have hope, if they do not screw loves opportunity up.
2007-01-07 03:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lesha a Canadian. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is misleading, as is the Hollywood presentation of romance.
People frequently forget that "LOVE" is a VERB. It is too often used to represent some mystical force that one has no control over. Yes, there are also feelings associated with love. What many people don't realize is that when love the verb is enacted, love the feeling is an inevitable result.
Whether you love someone at first sight is a matter of choice. If you choose to act in ways of loving kindness, even romance, the first time you see someone, then yes, you will love them at first sight. This can be done for people you are physically attracted to and people you aren't physically attracted to.
Time and again, people in arranged marriages or unwanted relationships have discovered that when they treat their significant other with love and kindness, they do grow to love them even if they had no feelings for them in the beginning. People who do charity work find that they come to love the subjects for whom they labor also.
Love the feeling, like all feelings, is subject to change. Love the action, like all actions, is a matter of choice. The mature choice to make is to continue to give love the action even when love the feeling has faded. If everyone did this, there would be far less divorce in this world. People would discover, as I have, as my father has, that you can fall out of love with someone just as easily as you can fall in love; that is, out of the feeling of love. But if you keep your promises, and persist in the act of love after the feelings are gone, you will find that the feelings of love return.
The reason for this is that people love what they put time and work into. Ask a writer how he feels about a book that took years to complete. Ask a sales manager how he feels about an increase in profits in his region. Ask yourself what you've accomplished and why you feel good about it. Then look at the people around you, especially at your romance, and examine what you've put into it. There is a direct correlation between how much work you put into the relationship, and how you feel about the other person.
There is love at first sight. Hollywood has taught us that there is one soulmate for each of us and if the relationship doesn't work, that person must not have been it. But this is not true. Any relationship that you give up on WILL fail. Any relationship that you expect to maintain itself WILL fail. This doesn't mean you were not in love, or that the person was not meant for you. It means you gave up, or they did.
I was physically attracted to my wife when I first saw her. The first words I ever spoke to her were,
"Wow, you're very beautiful."
But to accompany my feelings, I decided (based on a history of past failed relationships) always to act in a loving manner towards her. And my feelings have never faded.
2007-01-07 03:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by dorbrendal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that there is love at first sight but it disappears after the first night.
2007-01-07 03:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ! attraction from the first sight , but not love at first sight !
2007-01-07 04:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by abukhalaf88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of love your are looking for. If you are looking for a lustful fling then yes love at first sight is possible. If you are looking for a serious longtime relationship then it is not going to be as likely.
2007-01-07 03:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by I <3 OBAMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is. But a better way of understanding it is to think of it as recognition rather than first sight.
2007-01-07 03:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Keenu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes Love is an eternal being seeking it image in an another beings eyes. When it happens nothing stops it hunger to unit
and be one force. It's like being away from home and finally finding your way back to a familar face that you knew was waiting for you although you have never met in this life.
2007-01-07 05:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by mary b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋