2007-01-07 02:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by straws 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Competition, jealousy, it's in all of us but is stronger in others and in certain contexts that your success might have created, or simply expressed because of people's resentment of a past event in their lives they cannot vindicate or rectify, because they are not able to take it out on their "targets" they'll take it out on their environment or elements in that environment that substitute their real targets.
2007-01-07 06:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by charlie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you give that somebody power over your life. Come on stop blaming others for your choices as well. Nothing stops you from enjoying yourself in a restaurant or a cinema, plane, beach and other activities. Do not allow any human to spoil what you have decide to build or experience. We are adults not children any more.
2007-01-07 11:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lesha a Canadian. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every existence in life is the form of an effect/after-effect situation that spawns decisions and action where its implementation affects the humanity in social-life we encounter in every day living...Thus it is logical to come to a safe assumption that every action/reaction are linked to one another as well of its effect to human social environment, communications, business, mother nature and so on within the paths of time...a condition experienced by another person taken as a ruining their path to an action or to fulfill a desire or wants individually or as a group community, may well be not seem to create a negative meaning on the person who presumably "ruining" others lives...that person might have the content understanding that what he/she is doing a necessity, an act of upstanding the law etc. judging by that persons perspective...
By saying all that above, I am trying to lead you to understanding that everything in life is a PERCEPTION. Perception is conceived within you, within anyone you are in contact with, and within social surroundings you belong...so no matter where you go in life..., you will always, and always have the perception of that there are always someone there to ruin your life..it can be a member of your own family, others family, friends, peers, your boss...anyone..Happiness is also a perception..you can create it to whatever condition you are in..if you believe that you are strong to conceive the perception within you as to how you lead your life. so choose to believe the power of your own will and create that perception to change negative energy into a positive one.
Thank you, I hope you agree on my perception on life as a whole within the individual. Best Regards, Anthony Ricardo
2007-01-07 12:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R IN CHARGE OF U, THEY CAN ONLY DO THIS IF U ALLOW IT OR ENTERTAIN THEM! REMEMBER MISERY LOVES COMPANY & THERE R MANY OUT THERE LOOKING FOR COMPANY. AVOID THE NEGATIVE PEOPLE IN UR LIFE. IF U R SURROUNDED BY POSITIVE SUPPORTING FAMILY & FRIENDS IT IS THE BEST GIFT U CAN GIVE YOURSELF!! Have u ever been aroud people who hate when u r doing good? I sure have I feel sorry for them, and I avoid them!!!! SO U DO UR BEST & HAVE A GREAT LIFE! We Italians have a saying, THE BEST REVENGE IS LIVING THE GOOD LIFE!
2007-01-07 11:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by bodacious baby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because once you reach where you are going, you need to "raise the Barr", it is a way to continually strive for higher goals. One day you will be at the top, ruining things for everyone else. :)
2007-01-07 10:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just life. There'll always be someone out to get you. You just have to learn to look out for signals and be ready to turn things around in your favor.
2007-01-07 11:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can only ruin things if you let them.
2007-01-07 11:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people find enjoyment in tearing down things others have built and in discouraging them from trying to do anything.
2007-01-07 10:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Stand-up Philosopher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is a great story writer who know that without a villain a story gets boring.
2007-01-07 10:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes that's why.
That's why.
actually it is dependent on our thinking.
for example if you say'this should not happen 'probably it will happen just because of your negative thinking.
stop thinking that way.
just stop thinking negatively.
be positive.goodluck.
2007-01-07 11:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by UnIqUe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋