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Could you be with a man if he's not so hot?

2007-01-07 02:39:52 · 18 answers · asked by J 1 in Social Science Gender Studies

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Could you be with a man if he's not so hot?

Yeah, for sure.. :)

Physical appearances DONT matter much in the long run. They are, infact, the teasers of a movie. ;) :P. you may get attracted by the teaser, but to appreciate a movie, it HAS to be good. :)
Similarly, Its usually the personality of an individual which works... and its the personality which decides whether a Man/ Woman is hot or not. So, as long as someone is GOOD at that, it doesnt matter how good he looks...

PS: looks can b worked upon, cant they ;)

2007-01-07 03:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by ginger 1 · 0 0

Yeah, if i really truly like him for what he is on the inside. But usually i do care about the way people look, and for some reason i wouldn't pick up a really sweet guy who wasn't so hot right off he bat because i like his personality. Stuff like relationships takes some time when you're not sure about the appearance. It really does tell a whole lot about a person. And for the things that they CAN'T change, well that's just a shame and i'd have to grow to like it if i really like his gutts.
I hope this helped...i was completely honest!!! LOL

2007-01-07 10:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sample ID 1 · 0 0

physical appearence is equally important as the heart is.....No one can deny the fact that physical appearence is not so
important. these two qualities are the two sides of a coin.
Physical appearence is what, provided by the god but with the love you can change the nature of the person not his physical appearence.

2007-01-09 10:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by om sai ram 1 · 0 0

Ive never gone out with any men who would be considered hot. Of course I have to be physically attracted to the guy, but for me personality means more. I would also want someone to enjoy my personality more than my looks. Looks fade as we are all well aware of lol.

2007-01-07 17:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 0 0

It depends on how he treats me mostly. My second husband was not good looking, but he wasn't ugly. But when we first got together it was how he treated me that matter. My first husband was very good looking but as time progressed he didn't treat me so well. If they are super ugly then no matter how he treated me I wouldn't be interested. I saw a guy that had a face that he looked both like a man and a woman. Those features he had didn't make me want to go near him. (not that I'm looking) or have the right. But it's just a question, right?

2007-01-07 10:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0 0

I know lots of women who clearly do be with a guy not physically hot. some really attractive women like this. donald trump is extreme example

Still I think most women are PRETTY PICKY about what guy can control:
1) grooming
2) his ability to have her respect: intelligence, to fix things etc.

2007-01-07 12:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by rostov 5 · 1 0

Yes if he is a really nice guy and has a personality you love and just so -so looks, like you didn't think he was attractive when you first met him they sometimes seem attractive later.. But they can't be replusive to you, just not the prettiest swan in the lake.

2007-01-07 10:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The looks of someone is what draws you to them in the first place. However if you meet them someplace where you don't see them face to face (ie the internet) initially then you find other ways to be attracted to them. Personality is always a first with me, no matter what they look like. But yes you have to be attracted to someone-but you can be attracted to their personality more than their looks.

2007-01-07 10:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by balooney2 2 · 0 0

i know this sounds cheesey..but its whats inside that counts..the guy has to be clean...and not be a sick pig..and has to have a goal in life...people have to learn to look beyond the looks...because if you are too picky..you are going to live in a house with 20 cats...eating cat food out of a can. I don't know why looks always matter to people....it should be the personality..because I know no one wants to hang out with someone who only talks about themselfs...and who don't laugh at jokes...

2007-01-07 10:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by mizzms 4 · 0 0

Appearences are deceptive but it is also important. I like guys with smart look.

2007-01-07 11:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by cupid 3 · 0 0

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