females only!!! need help!!!?

Question

i really wan to reach an orgasm but just cant seem to i dont no were the right places are to achive on please can you help me... really serious answers only

if im alone... were is the clit.... help please give me directions

Answer 1

Lay on your stomach on the bed. Wiggle!
That spot where it feels really good. That is it!!

That is how I found mine...

Answer 2

It is said "A woman's mind is between her legs",true.Dere is a very big difference between making love and having sex.Making love gives u a feeling of being loved while sex can becum a routine and ultimately lead to boredom thus requiring you to change partners.
Try not making out for a month or until ur mind (not body)craves to be atleast touched bya male.Once you reach that stage, make out with your partner...slow and steady.Keep ur mind free while making out and just let urself go,enjoy the feeling of being touched.
Imagine eating a Kit-Kat four times a day,everyday (eg:routine).There wil come a time wen u wil hate the very sight of it.But now imagine u dont eat Kit-Kat frequently and oneday ur boyfriend surprises u with a bar of Kit-Kat...wudnt u just love to eat it?.It is the same principle wen cums to the union of two ppl.
Read material on "Kamasutra". Making love is an art,learn it!

Answer 3

Have you tried masturbation? When you masturbate you have to pleasure yourself to achieve an orgasm, but at the same time you're exploring what you like and don't like. Once you master this you can tell your partner what you enjoy and what you don't. My suggestion is doing a lot of foreplay before sex. Licking, touching, kissing the 5 spots.

Five Spots:
Behind the Ear
Back or Side of Neck
Nipples
Stomach
Vagina


Good Luck

Answer 4

I would love to go into details for you, but this is definitely not the right place to do so, as there are many on here who do not need to see these things. All you need to do is a little (serious) researching on the net. Hit medical and sex therapy sites first, you will get your most potent information there. Don't worry, you aren't alone in this, and there are many avenues to take. Good luck in your research, and take care. :)

Answer 5

okay... when you're masturbating, the ambiance should perfect for masturbating. turn off all the lights, and it's preferable if you're clean-shaved and naked. when you start, make sure your hands are warm, and don't think of anything else except for this because you need to concentrate in order to get the right sensation. but don't think too much about it either. caress your(....) slowly and gently, then stick one finger (preferably your index) and move it in and out slowly, then when it's deep deep in in, swirl it around and make it like a hook and touch the deepest pint you get to (make sure your finger is like a hook). the part you touch with your hooked finger is your G-spot. make sure you touch it and use a pulsing method, don't just move your finger around, pulse it on thatspot and you'll have an orgasm within 10 seconds hopefully. i hope i could help.

Answer 6

well are you alone or with someone. this may help:

http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm

it's not uncommon. could be medicine you take, if you drink that's a negative, no exercise is also a negative. try the kegel exercise to tighten up that area. it's a muscle and needs to be exercised. hope this helps.

Answer 7

drink prune juice.

massage your clit.

Answer 8

get a rabbit. if you get one you will find out where your clit is.

Answer 9

get a toy or use fingers and explore

Answer 10

talk to your bf and get him to explore diffrent things with you