How to delay premature release during sex?

Question

I am married for 3 years & now the climax occurs in a flash. Are there any creams that help to prolong the intercourse? Any such products available over the counter? Please advise.

Answer 1

At some time or other, most guys experience premature ejaculation, which means that they ejaculate before they want to. They can't control their response to the stimulation that triggers ejaculation. This is also called early ejaculation. Up to 35 percent of young men experience early ejaculation so often that they see it as a problem.

Being very excited, fear and anxiety about sex, alcohol and drug use, and depression may cause early ejaculation. Open communication with a partner about likes and dislikes, and paying attention to sensation — to slow down the process of getting to the point of ejaculatory inevitability — during sex play can help guys delay ejaculation.

Men who seek sex therapy for early ejaculation are taught the "squeeze technique." The partner brings the man to erection, but squeezes the penis just below the glans with thumb and forefinger just before the time when ejaculation would become inevitable. The partner applies pressure until the erection is reduced by 10-30 percent. The penis is released for about 30 seconds before it is brought to erection again. This procedure is repeated until the man can go for 15-20 minutes before ejaculating. When he can postpone ejaculation, he is allowed to have intercourse again.

Other men have tried Extended Pleasure condoms by Trojan or Permorax condoms by Durex. These condoms are coated with a mild anesthetic on the inside that desensitizes the penis and helps a guy last longer.

Answer 2

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There are many natural ways to cure premature ejaculation. A proven natural method can be found on this site http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=565

Recent polls have shown that the average length of intercourse is usually anywhere between 2 to 12 minutes. Most often those diagnosed with premature ejaculation climax in less than a minute or two, and there are even those who ejaculate before there is any sort of penetration. In all actuality, “too short” is really just a matter of opinion. The most important factor is if a man feels that he is unable to control his ejaculation and is frequently climaxing before he would like. Any man who feels that this is a problem for him may be suffering from some form of premature ejaculation.
I hope it helps

Answer 3

I have been suffering from premature ejaculation for most of my life, but I found the most amazing invention to tackle this issue and since then I never looked back, and it is so simple. You can find the solution here ( http://prematurejaculation.kyma.info ) When a man is suffering from premature ejaculation, he is often climaxing before his partner and in the case of most men it is difficult if not impossible for them to continue intercourse after ejaculating. That's because chemicals are released when a man ejaculates and these are the same chemicals that make a person feel sleepy and/or not aroused. It’s not that they have suddenly lost interest, just their brain is telling them that the sex is over. This effect is more prominent after intercourse than after masturbation because intercourse actually causes four times more of these chemicals to be released. If premature ejaculation occurs frequently, it can lead to embarrassment for the man and sexual frustration for both partners.

Answer 4

Sexology book says to hold the portion or hinge between the penis and testis tightly for a while when u r inside, and pause movement, breath nicely, when u feel like ejaculating. And repeat the steps often by giving breaks on movement.

But ,
masturbation/ oral sex before actual action, (because when u do in vagina after once doing masturbation the time u take to ejaculate is increased), will resolve this problem. In means of satisfaction it is better to increase the time of fore plays and do sex when u r fresh and relaxed. An urge in sex always results in dissatisfaction by both.
Also always practise inside vagina so that u will get accommodated to it and the urge to ejaculation is comparatively a mental desire, so have talks while sex to deviate yourself from climax.
But the fact is men get the sort of good feeling in sex only during the time of ejaculation where they fly and forget the world they are in. Premature Ejaculation has to be taken care only for the sake of women, becoz men lay down immediately after they complete with and women not yet yet would have started. So better try to enhance the sex in Ur wife with fore plays, try to satisfy by other ways like oral/ hand. And then proceed with insertion, thus both of you may climax at same time. Before insertion spend some time with her other than actual.
All the Best

Answer 5

what really works:
1 ask your doctor to prescibe an anti-depressant for you. there are several brands available that delay the early release of your little guys.
2. try masturbating yourself an hour or so before you plan to have partnered sex. this recovery time will serve to delay the completion of the act.

Answer 6

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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.

He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied

Answer 7

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Answer 8

The first technique I'd suggest was made famous by the Farrelly brothers in the movie "There's Something About Mary." In the movie, Ben Stiller is going on a first date with Cameron Diaz, and a friend gives him the sage advice to "clean the pipes" before the date, thus ensuring a smooth and lasting experience. Naturally, he gets caught masturbating, so things don't end up so smooth, but the theory is actually quite sensible. If you've already masturbated earlier, you should be less tense, more able to relax, and your sexual reaction time may be lengthened which will allow you more time to satisfy her. Keep in mind, though, that if you time it wrong, you may be stuck in your refractory period and your lady may be wondering why the equipment isn't working. The second technique is to desensitize your penis during actual intercourse. As I said above, part of the reason why men ejaculate so quickly is that there is sexual sensory overload. One way to combat that overload is to simply cut back on the sensation. The easiest way to do this is to try double bagging your penis. As you've hopefully realized already, there's a big difference in sensation between putting your penis inside a girl's vagina, and putting on a condom, and then doing it. That small piece of latex is enough to dull sensation, and it does help men who orgasm quickly. Therefore it's not a huge leap to imagine that putting on two condoms may help even more. The thicker the barrier between you and your lady, the more likely it is that you'll be able to control your sexual arousal. For these purposes, I'd recommend a regular latex condom, not one of the ultra-sheer types which are made to increase sensation. If you are having trouble orgasming before you even get to intercourse, then try putting the condom on as soon as you have an erection, even before she touches you. If you're still not happy with the results, there are creams and sprays that desensitize the penis by applying a mild anesthetic. They work along the same lines as medications that you apply to your mouth to numb tooth pain. The pervasiveness of these products indicates to me that there are some people who find them effective, but there are caveats to using them. One is that some men report that they lose a certain amount of sexual pleasure. Another is that it is best to use the cream or spray with a condom, lest you desensitize the mouth, vagina, etc, of your partner. Finally, they aren't really a long-term solution to the problem. I don't imagine you want to whip out your numbing cream every time you want to have sex with your girl. My last technique is a more enduring (pardon the pun) solution, but it requires a lot more effort than the previous suggestions. This is what I call the Frankie Goes To Hollywood technique. In the 80s, a band called Frankie Goes to Hollywood had a hit song called, "Relax," and the lyrics went: Relax, don't do it, when you want to come. This is based on the physiological fact that orgasms are partly the result of a buildup of tension in the body. The next time you are masturbating, notice that your thighs, abdominals, sometimes even your feet, tense up as you approach orgasm. What you need to do is work against this urge. The muscle that really counts for this exercise is the one that you use to start and stop the flow of urine, and it is called the pubococcygeal muscle. To find it, the next time you urinate, stop the flow of urine a couple of times, and try to get a feel for the muscle you are contracting to do so. After you've finished, try sitting or laying down somewhere and isolating and contracting that muscle. Just like any other workout regimen, it won't be easy at first. Start out by exercising the muscle in the evening after urinating and before going to bed. Make sure the rest of your muscles are relaxed (abs, thighs, etc). Begin by contracting it for a count of five, then relaxing for a count of five. Repeat twenty times. Each day increase one of the increments - either make it a count of six, or up the reps by five. As time goes by, you will find that you will be able to hold the contraction for quite a while, and you will be able to perform the exercise while you're driving, or sitting at your desk at work or school. No one will know you're doing it. The key, however, is not just learning how to contract the muscle, but also learning how to relax it. When you're approaching orgasm, this is one of the muscles that clenches very tightly, so to stave off the orgasm, you'll need to consciously relax that muscle. It may be difficult to do at first, but I'd suggest trying it while masturbating first. If you are normally able to orgasm quickly by masturbating, get yourself almost there, and then consciously relax that muscle. You'll find that the orgasm feeling subsides somewhat, and you are able to work yourself up to the same frenzy again and again. Once you have the relax technique down, try it with your girl. She'll be pleasantly surprised. I don't know that you'll last long enough to satisfy her, but it's a step in the right direction. And from what men tell me, you will be happily surprised, too - supposedly an orgasm that happens after nearly peaking several times can be explosive.

Answer 9

i very old trick,i have learned as a old salt,is the chinese way
at least,i was told that it is called a chinese number.
when you are busy,pumping ,just stop,well in time before you come,and lay still, until the urge is gone,than start again slowly
and repeat this.
this way you can make love all night,and have the grande finale
in the morning when the birds start singing again.
good luck!

Answer 10

masturebate about 20 minutes before sex