i am one of the people all my friends come to if they have a problem or want to share one of their secrets but i never open up to anybody ever, is this a bad thing? because sometimes it feels like life is crowdin in on me ....
2007-01-07 02:07:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find someone who you can open up to. Eventually life will get to be too much with your problems and your friends' problems and then your stuck. It's okay to let your friends know your human. They come to you because you make them feel beter, I'm sure you can trust them to do the same.
2007-01-07 02:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit like me. When people heard of my divorce they were shocked! They had no idea there were problems. I just didn't air my problems for the world to see. I don't entrust just anybody with my private thoughts. I DO have one very good friend to help me along life's road. I hope you have a friend you can go to. : )
If not, open up on here! I've found it very good therapy for myself. : )
2007-01-07 02:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your a very trusting, caring person. Yes I do think you need to also choose someone you believe in and trust as well, It's not good to hold things in. It's a great feeling to get out those feelings. I have always heard it's not healthy.
2007-01-07 02:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound so much like me.for me it was bcoz i wouldnt speak much at home ,dat i wouldnt open up to anyone else.but i guess the best thing to do would be to start talking to someone u really trust.
2007-01-07 03:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way. Its hard to talk to people about our issues as it seems they don't want to hear it!! But I still am always there for my friends!!
2007-01-07 02:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋