My friend agreed to meet up with me on Saturday and help proofread my essay. But when I went all the way to his office he said he directly went home because he wanted to sleep and he thought we were gonna meet on Sunday. I was so mad but I controlled my anger and asked if he can just email it back to me after he proofread it, and he said ok. But he never send it back.
Should I just ignore him cuz I feel he is doesn't deserve to be my friend.
2007-01-07 01:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Before I went to his office I texted him asking if we are gonna meet today,and he didn't reply. I called him when I got there and obviously his cellphone is on and he got my msg! He just chose to ignore me.
2007-01-07 01:58:45 · update #1
Sounds like he is a part time friend and has time for u when he wants something u are better off distancing yourself from him and see where that goes
2007-01-07 02:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really your friend he should have taken the time to proofread your essay for you, sleep or no. Although sometimes people get sidetracked or distracted with their work and things honestly get mistaken or misunderstood. If it were me, I would give him the benefit of the doubt, do the proofreading yourself and go on. It sounds like he may just not be that reliable. Just maybe look elsewhere in the future for help with papers. Take care.
2007-01-07 10:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever reason, your friend is being selfish and irresponsible.
You were right to control your anger, especially because there may be things going on in his life that have him preoccupied and he didn't intentionally mean to forget about you.
In the meantime, be friendly and don't cut him off completely (you can never have too many friends) but don't expect much from him either. Eventually, he may come around.
2007-01-07 09:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by DannyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been friends? How well do you know him? This behavior may not be unusual for him. To ignore you, and not return your paper is not good and it is quite disrespectful. I would not ask him any questions about what happened and I would not call him again. He knows what he did was wrong and he will be expecting to hear about it. Instead, be pleasant whenever you talk to him again, and know that you learned a valuable lesson about him.
2007-01-07 10:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to do as you've asked and he's too embarrassed to say so, and so he thinks that by ignoring it, it will go away, so you'll have to do just that, unless you want to make scene, in which case he'll just make up more excuses, so you'll be kept hanging on again.
Best advice, take the hint and ask someone else to help you out.
Oh, and by the way, he's NOT your friend! 4get him!
2007-01-07 10:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Honey W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just maby your friend has some problem that he needed to work out and did forget,so try to be a little more understanding.What is wrong with you proof reading your own essay to find out if it is o.k.
2007-01-07 10:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by zzum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is very selfish. Id dump him for a friend you can depend on.
2007-01-07 10:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him, DONT BE SO LAZY and i think his only problem is laziness but if you think he does or doesnt deserve to be your friend, you decide because i dont no hows hes like so...i cant help you with that. well..just confess to him how you think he should act and tell him how u feel and if or so u want to be his friend.
2007-01-07 10:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by jas l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound very interested in being YOUR friend.
2007-01-07 09:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's no friend. Yes, ignore him IMO.
2007-01-07 10:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋