... he expects me to believe that nothing happened between them until after are split - am i really that nieve to believe him? I don't think i am - but general thoughts?
2007-01-07 01:45:07 · 19 answers · asked by Elaine D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mate, you have said it all, kick him to the kerb! You KNOW he has lied, you are not stupid, just clutching at straws. Just allow yourself to do that for 24 hours only.
You have got to be worth so much more then that!
You have not lost a 5 year relationship, but worse - TRUST, the relationship is worth nothing with out it. Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
You will go through all the emotions, hurt, bereavement, anger, but at the end of the day, treat yourself to a new hairdo, some new gear, and get out there, there has got to be someone who will treat you better, and make you happy! Good luck!
2007-01-07 01:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's going on there then?
Ask him what the hell is he playing at? He might be cheating on you babe, you just got to ask him strait.
Dumping someone before xmas is wrong coz xmas is suppose to be a happy time.
Has he ask you out again? If he has say no coz he's playing with your mind and after five years, why does crimbo seem the best time to dump someone.
If you're going out with him already, dump him before he ditches you again.
But, if you love him that much not to ditch him, tell him how you feel and ask him wether he feels the same.
Don't worry if it doesn't turn out, find someone new and make sure he knows that you don't love him anymore.(that's only if you actually don't)
2007-01-07 02:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Little_Miss_Advice xxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think he is being completely honest with you. His feelings may have developed for this new woman whilst you were still together, and he may have done the 'honourable' thing, and ended it with you before he let anything happen. I do find that hard to believe, but then you never know. He's trying to protect someone here, but I'm not sure if it 's you, or him ...
I know how gross you feel right now, and hope you get an abundance of strength from somewhere somtime soon ... Answers will let themselves be known in time, my lovely ...
2007-01-07 01:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There may well be no factor as he would not comprehend it, and all you would be doing is poisoning his little liver : ( in case you have chose him to strengthen up with admire for his physique, do not drink at homestead around him, and enable him comprehend that wine or alcohol ordinarily is for particular situations like weddings or birthdays. he would be a responsible social drinker : ) My dad and mom do not drink, i'm 15 and that i comprehend the social and well being problems linked with alcohol. i don't intend on ever ingesting.
2016-10-30 05:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by speth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no.
He's probably completely lying.
But, I guess the question now is: Does it matter?
Obviously, anyone who would dump you like this just to rub your nose in his new relationship for the holidays is useless. I know this has got to hurt like hell right now, but you're better off without him. Take some satisfaction in the fact that he probably won't treat this next girl any better.
Take care of yourself...
2007-01-07 02:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by David G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless he fell victim to instant attraction, while drowning his sorrows over the split then the immergence of another woman so soon seems hard to believe.
Good look in finding your perfect partner.
2007-01-07 01:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's lying...he was seeing this girl before you split...he cheated on you, for hw long, i don't know, but he was definitely NOT faithful to you during your relationship....no one would walk into a new relationship so oon after breaking up...i don't care what he says....he was with her before...forget him, let her bear the brunt of him, because he'll do it to her once he gets fed up with her, find a nice trustworthy man hun, this one is not honest, and don't believe him when he tells you that nothing was going on before he split with you...he's lying....and for gods sake...don't take him back
2007-01-07 02:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah i wouldnt hes just full of it and trying ot make himself look better by saying nothing happened till after u dont meet someone n decide they are ur gf/bf in one day!
2007-01-07 01:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Poppy28 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u shud give him benefit of the doubt
my current bf dumped his gf n went out with me the day after.... n i can promise u now that he DIDNT cheat on her with me, n the only reason y we did was cos we had liked eachotehr for ages, bt he didnt have the guts 2 break up with her n when he did we got 2gether bt kept it a secret for 2weeks so she wudnt b upset...
2007-01-07 02:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Smiley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have the same prob but i have to half believe as we have kids i tell him that i believe he dident but i dont get your self tested for std's that what i did now I'm just waiting on results oh mine moved straight in with her the day it happened to me never even told me he was leaving just never came home from work
2007-01-07 01:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by boredstupid 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋