Does sex get better or worse after you get married?
2007-01-07 01:41:22 · 16 answers · asked by Abbra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It has its peaks and valleys. You need to spice things up from time to time because sometimes the same thing over and over can get stale.
2007-01-07 01:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all there are 2 questions here. 1 being, does "sex" get better and the 2nd is, Does "making love" get better. These 2 must be distinguished in order to get the answer you need. Making love,,,, after marriage making love does get better, much better, deeper connections are met and a more satisfying, fulfillment in the basic needs. there are times, (more often in later years) when you want sex sometimes rather than making love, here it gets better if both partners want to experience the same kind of sexual direction. This is dependent on how you both want to enjoy sex. be open and honest and the communication is a very big key.
2007-01-07 09:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by paws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's a blanket answer for this but I can share my experience.
Sex got better but less frequent.
You (should) be learning how to please your partner over time and vice versa - for that reason it gets better. Over time though you'll plateau and must find new ways to keep things hot. If you can do that, sex will continue to get better.
With regard to frequency, that's just life. Things creep in and most married couples eventually do have sex with less frequency. Typically this is OK as long as the quality of sex is still high.
Now, one thing I personally experienced is that sex after divorce is MUCH hotter - but that's a whole different story. ;)
Good luck! Keep striving to please eachother and you will stand the test of time!
2007-01-07 09:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by derek985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that it is a cut and dry for everyone.
I think if you are on the same page with your spouse it most definitely can get BETTER.
I find that as my love grows for her, so does the experiences physically. The other aspect, with everytime you become more and more familar with one another, learning what your lover/spouse wants makes it easier to do the things they like.
My sensations heighten when I see that I am doing the right things for HER.
It only gets worse when you fall out of sync and stop romancing and/or having encounters.
2007-01-07 09:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Randal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex has gotten better since we got married and still have sex almost everyday. We have been married 5 years.
2007-01-07 10:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by guest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay lets ask you this....does sex get better with different women nightly? And why? Is it all the same?
Now lets answer....
#1yes it gets better with different women
#2why is because you do different things with each of them...
#3its never the same...
That's the way you seek sex or love making in marriage...do new things with one another....keep the spice and life in the marriage.
So your answer is it is the same as before....just with the same woman you fell in love with....keep it alive....different and be open to try new things together!
Good luck
2007-01-07 09:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times the sex changes after marriage because the way you treat your spouse changes. If you are experiencing changes look at your relationship
2007-01-07 09:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by unsirtnty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men say that it gets worse because it doesn't happen as often. If put children in the picture, I have heard that it's nearly nonexistent.
2007-01-07 09:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ours got better after marriage when we were able to be alone more and had time to experiment.
2007-01-07 09:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can only get better unless you are a lazy lover.
2007-01-07 09:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋