It's the fashion, and sometimes I do it when I go out at night or on the weekends, but I always feel self-conscious. Some women I work with show cleavage every day and never bat an eyelash. What do you think? Do you like it? Does it make you feel self-conscious?
2007-01-07 01:21:31 · 22 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
It's a matter of how much you show and in what circumstance. Cleavage at work is very slutty. At formal gatherings, a little cleavage is attractive; more is trashy. I've seen so much cleavage lately I can't even drink milk any more.
2007-01-07 01:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on your personality. Some people can show off their cleavage, feel comfortable, and yet carry it in a decent, non-disrespectful way.
If you wear them with a super short skirt, real thick make up, high heels, and get drunk in a bar; then I suppose it will cal attention - maybe it's what they're after - from men.
But if you keep it simple with jeans and keep yourself composed and seem that it doesn't bother you, then that wouldn't be scandalous.
If it doesn't feel right for you, you don't have to do it. In fact you can still be sexy in many other ways. Fashion doesn't really bring out the best in you - it's just a passing fancy that's fun to play around with once in a while.
2007-01-07 09:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by spygirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not slutty - depending on how low you go. Leaving a button or two undone elongates your neck. I have also found it difficult to wear necklaces without bringing the girls out a little when I wear a blouse or oxford. At work I tend to be a little more self-conscious, but I am by no means dressing like a fashion goddess and baring a ton of skin. I had a supplier come in one day who was in full-force slutwear; I could actually see the bow on her bra. That's a little low . . .
2007-01-07 09:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sassygirlzmom 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't want to go out somewhere and have someone's cleavage falling out of there shirt- then it's trashy and I don't want to see it at all. But a little cleavage isn't bad. I show a little cleavage now and then but nothing that insinuates that I'm trashy. If you got 'em you miswell show a little and be proud of them. But every single day- that's a little overwhelming.
2007-01-07 13:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by im_so_linda 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really does depend on where you are and how much you are showing. If you are at work, no probably none. If you are going out with say you're boyfriend, then a little would be acceptable. Not a lot ever.
2007-01-07 10:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with it in the proper environment... If you are out clubbing... by all means show what God gave you... but on the other hand, say if you were in church... it would not be considered proper... unless of course you were wearing a wedding dress... You will get some stares if you do this at work, but guys will be guys... and you know how us guys are !
2007-01-07 09:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Showing cleavage is not slutty at all but very sexy.If you have big boobs and nice cleavage why not show them and be proud of them.
I alwyas do that and since my boobs are small I use push up bra to show my cleavage nicely.
Enjoy your cleavage and be proud of it and show it ladys.
2007-01-07 12:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its not sluuty, as long as you don't show TOO much. A little is fine.. what are you gonna do?? wear turtlenecks formthe rest of your life?? As long as you dont expose too much its fine, and yuor not being a slut adn if yuo're this concerned with being a slut, you're definetly NOT a slut.
2007-01-07 09:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't like to show too much...when other women do and they are in your face then i feel uncomfortable and don't feel i can have a proper conversation with
There is such a thing as too much
2007-01-07 09:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by becki f 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
the whole problem with "slutty-cleavage-showing" is that some people show wayyyyyy too much.
here's how to do it exactly:
make sure the cleavage you're showing is at least two inches ABOVE the nipple.
nobody wants to see it closer than that.
so as long as you do not show to much, people won't think you are slutty.
also, if you are afraid they are going to "pop out", get some breast tape at http://www.wonderfulbreast.com/products/doublesided_tape.htm
good luck!
2007-01-07 09:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by caroline 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋