my boyfriend is a virgin as he believes in sex after marrige. but everytime he gets turned on by kissing or hugging he experiences pain later in the abdominals and bladder area. he says this is due to him getting turned on and not able to have sex or anything. is this true? and if not what could it be instead?
2007-01-07 00:48:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
hello sony if he is a virgin and feels like that every time you could masterbate him and he would not be in pain and he will still be a virgin
2007-01-10 07:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by arfa54321 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's noble of your boyfriend to believe in sex after marriage and for you all sake I hope he is telling the truth. You should know him, so is he being truthful?
How far away is the wedding? Will an engagement change his belief?
YES IT'S TRUE about the side effects and if he wants to control these effects, he has options to prevent him from getting turn on.
1) Mentally dismiss the stimulating taught to get turn on,( this is the practice to his belief.)
2) Only hold hands,hug and kiss in areas where there is people watching.(a turn off for men; a turn on for women) Stay away from hidden places, it will turn him on to brake his belief.
Don't be the one to mess up his faith, it will hurt you in the end.
2007-01-07 02:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a male is aroused for a long period, the body produces extra sperm etc. because of this additional production if it is not used it can often cause aching...
this will go away after an hour or so, but a 5 knuckle shuffle can do the trick almost instantly...
2007-01-07 00:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is causing himself pain by getting aroused and sexually excited. This does cause discomfort, especially if not taken care of. I'm betting he does take care of the problem later after he goes home. Sad that religion has perverted our lives so much that sex is reviled as a evil thing that can only be experienced by married people.
2007-01-07 03:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well i have heard this can be true. either hurry and get married and put the poor man out of his pain and misery or is masturbation out too cause if it is no more snogging and hugging
2007-01-07 01:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by kiarakitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happens one should not repress the urge to indulge in sex or abstain your company all togather. my advise is do not wait till merriage start the bliss right now. you can be monogamous if it is important it is good desirable but if you are devoted to each other there is problem with sex no need to wait for merriage. merriage happens in your minds and hearts not in any legal books.
2007-01-07 01:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by ja j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should varnish the tadpole, to eliminate the pressure.
I think for reasons of mental health, a male should lose his virginity as soon as legally possible.
When we someday look back on our life, we won't regret the times we had sex.
2007-01-07 01:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by bluffer_40 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it may be due to the suppression of excitement that comes when he kisses or hugs.
he shud try concentration exercises like meditation i. e. focussing on breathe coming in n goin out wid closed eyes n no thoughts in mind.
2007-01-07 00:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by dgigf f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop kissing?
The fact is: he gets aroused and yet he doesn't want to have sex before marriage....surely he can sort himself out every morning in the shower?
Or maybe he should discover the delights of sex before marriage!
2007-01-07 06:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Stef 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What century is your boyfriend living in? It's fine if he doesn't want to have sexual intercourse prior to marriage, but you need to masturbate him so he ejaculates every time you see him get an erection. That'll help the problem tremendously.
2007-01-07 01:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋