We live together but both work hard mon-fri, so no quality time there.
She asked days ago do i mind her going to the footie on sat i said no not at all. Today she tells me that a night out is also planned for the Friday night (with the same person as the footie) and sundays she is out playing football most of the day.
She thought it was fine, well is said go away and think about it......telling her im not happy oi wont see her all weekend.
Is she selfish????
2007-01-07 00:30:39 · 14 answers · asked by nic j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as she isn't cheating on you and she has given you advanced notice, then she isn't being selfish. Or I should say that she is being selfish, but nothing that is uncalled for. Even though you're a couple you are still individuals, so each of you need to satisfy yourselves as individuals as well as a couple. The time that she gets to spend without you (or you without her) at times will make you better as a couple.
2007-01-07 00:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this normal behavior or do you think she's just trying to have some "me time"?. If she's like this all the time then i'd say she was a little more than selfish, but she could just be going through a mini-phase right now. Why don't you see if she doesn't mind you tagging along...that will tell you a lot.
2007-01-07 00:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but if she isnt spending ATLEAST one weekend day with you or inviting you to go with her than it sounds like she is distancing herself from you.....on purpose. I think you should definately tell her how you feel and ask her why she thinks your not deserving enough for her companionship.I would remind her that she is supposed to be your girlfriend and if she cant split some weekend time between you and her friends than she needs to find someone else to be selfish around because you deserve better.
2007-01-07 00:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by sinistersister69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...not really...she just needs to work to get to footie on the week ends!......sometimes being patient and playing second fiddle is better than being left out in right field
2007-01-07 00:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she just needs a break from all that working you need to get out and do the same thing... Why sit at home on the weekend while she's out enjoying herself go do the same thing just don't do anything you'll regret doing...
2007-01-07 00:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Love Hurtz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is being selfish. She just needs some space. You should find something to do while she's out doing her thing this weekend. Don't make a problem out of nothing.
2007-01-07 01:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question doesn't make much sense to me.
With relationships (especially when you live together) you have to give each other space and time apart with other friends.
2007-01-07 00:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to admit she does sound selfish and it also seems she likes to spend more time with this person than you, if yu ont see ech other that much you would think she would want to spend as much time together as possible! i thinkyou need to fac her about this problem. or it will never sort itself out!
2007-01-07 00:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she needs time for her self, and you are being hard on your self! go out and enjoy your self!
And always confront her with your feelings, never keep it to your self! remember this is a relation and its all about sharing!
2007-01-07 00:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by mwa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it and I hope you aren't. She just values the other things and people she is doing more. We all prioritize either subconsciously or consciously.
2007-01-07 00:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋