I finishd my boyf coz people ad been spreadin crap bout us all..they sed he'd been seein his ex.We ad finishd b4 and i thought evrythin was fine..i know he'd not cheated on me. I don't no why i did it. He's told sum1 close 2 me he likes me so much. I love him more than i thought it possible to love anyone. I saw him a few nights ago and he hardly spoke 2 me. When i saw him my heart skipped a few beats. He eusually txts me evryday and i txt him but now he aint txtin bk. Im getting mixed signals. I wud give anything just to talk. I dont no wot to do coz if i talk to anyone they say i can do better and to stop being stupid. I think its true u can't help who u fall in love with. U probly all think im bein pathetic but deep down I think he feels the same way. Im not askin for him bak i just want to no what 2 do.
2007-01-06 23:52:48 · 29 answers · asked by chaos4eternity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look darl dont worry about wat people say wat goes around comes around live your life if you want to speak to him just do it if i was in his position i would like to think that you could still speak to me know wat i mean darl
if you get the same feeling wen you talk to him as you do wen you are at the top point of a rollercoaster then go for it trust me
but dont listen to any one else its your life you make the decisions no one else
take care laters dean
2007-01-07 00:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by dean p654 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the best advice I can give you is to stop speaking and writing as though you are from Harlem or East LA. Do you want to live the life you are living now or do you want to live the American dream (have a better life than the people who came before you)? Properly speaking and writing will help you travel a road to a better life. Speaking slang from the 'hood will keep you in the 'hood.
Now, if you have broken it off with your boyfriend because of what other's have said, which you knew was not true, and you want to get back with him, the best thing to do is to offer him your sincere apology. If he accepts your apology, and wants to be with you again, then your situation can be worked on. If he is tired of being falsely accused of doing the wrong thing, it is time for you to move on. Learn your lesson from this situation and don't do the same thing in the future.
Part of your trouble is you don't know who to believe. You accept bad advice from untrustworthy people. Don't just accept what one person, or someone with an agenda, says to you without verifying what you have heard from independent sources. Ask the person who is being accused "what is the truth about this situation?" Does the person look you in the eye when he/she answers? Does their body language match what they are saying? You have to learn to pick up on the clues given when someone is lying to you.
Go to school. Get educated, Better yourself. Travel in good circles. Try to meet a better class of people than those who make up stories to hurt others.
2007-01-07 00:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by maninthemirror327 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my guess is your relationship needed help anyway if u were so quick to listen to the gossip and not trust him, and to end it so quickly. Do you just love him more now because a) you can't have him or b) you're jealous at the thought of him with his ex? He must still have feelings for you! If you really feel this way, talk to him. Repair the damage and tell him you were wrong to end it, but rather you would like to repair the lack of trust. If he says no, it's for a reason and you can move on.
2007-01-07 03:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, why do both of you let rimors ruin your life. It should be based on trust and love. I guess it wasn't solid enough. If he does not text message you or call you, it means he does not feel the same way about you. It sound like you have your head on your shoulder and your GF is right. You will find a better guy who will love you with his heart. Stay positive!
2007-01-06 23:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I read your title I was gonna tell you that forgive him or smash your heart with a big rock , but after I raed your whole message I think you love him very very much and you should get him back in any way soon or later dead or alive , my advise is to let and intermidiary involves in ur story , a friend , a member of ur family to set up a date with him if he doesn't want to talk to u anymore , when u got this chance try everything to convince him to get back to u , express ur feeling .......because maybe he doesn't know what your real feelings are
2007-01-07 00:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Zickorabia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I in basic terms remorseful approximately one factor....maximum could think of its once I crossed paths with the regulation while i become 12. yet i've got forgiven myself for that one. anyhow, I in basic terms remorseful approximately being so darn shy while it is composed of telling human beings how i've got faith approximately them. i've got ignored out on soo many opportunities, soo many buddies...and the main important kicker is that if i in my view cherished somebody i wouldnt tell them. i'm no longer terrified of being shot down or too embarrassed to realize this i in basic terms cant artwork up the braveness to stroll as much as her and say "Hay, wanna circulate out sometime?" or something like that lol i bounce into the chum classification and that i'll stay there watching her with human beings and constantly being a third wheel b/c i'm like her g/f lol. So, there ya have it.^^'
2016-12-12 06:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by fechter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you to do. I have never in my life had a bf that everyone wanted me to be with. However if you saw him and he barely spoke and he hasn't tried to contact you it probably means he is int ready for a relationship just yet.
2007-01-07 00:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe things aren't working out because he can't understand a word you're saying. your "question" is very difficult to read and if this is how you text message or even talk----who can blame him. my advice would be to take a grammar and english class and forget him. after a little self improvement you'll find someone better. if it was meant to be, it will be. just remember that.
2007-01-06 23:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by origchick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi take my advice a woman of experience
you are better off with a dog they do not give any grief at all and do as they are told and love you all the time. They are also true and loyal .
2007-01-07 00:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not being pathetic at all, why not call him and ask him to meet up somewhere so that you can talk face to face. if he won't meet up with you, then i think you have to face the fact that he might not be coming back this time.
Good Luck
2007-01-07 00:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by grace k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think he still likes you, & you obviously still love him. So why dont you just call him instead of texting him. Talk to him, ask him yourself, then you can finally find out the truth. Good luck!!
2007-01-06 23:58:23 · answer #11 · answered by dee bee007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋