Safe inside a locker in the district policeheadquarters in east Delhi, lies Anju Ilyasi's story: What marriage to theman she loved meant to her, her ecstasy on giving birth to a beautifuldaughter, her frustration on being neglected by Suhaib Ilyasi and not beingable to pursue a career, her apprehensions about the other women in herhusband's life and finally, the last words capturing the final moments ofdesperation.
n her diary, Anju blames Suhaib for harassing and torturing her every timeshe committed a mistake at home, when the food was not ready when he camehome and when she questioned him when he came home late. ``He is alwayslooking for an excuse to get angry on me,'' she once wrote.
There are instances where an angry Anju has unabashedly abused Suhaib. Onesuch entry reads: ``Kamina....rakshas...uska sapna hai ki woh mujhenaukrani banake rakhe. Mein aise nahin hone dungee.'' (He thinks he cankeep me like a servant in his house. I will not let it happen.)
At several places, she had accused Suhaib of not giving her money to meether personal expenses while he apparently spent a lot of money on his owntrips abroad.
2007-01-06 23:49:50 · 3 answers · asked by riya_thakur2006 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Please be careful when passing judgement on this story, there is always two sides to a story.
2007-01-06 23:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by whispergently0204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isnt this the traditional treatment of muslim women?Isnt that why Osama Bin Ladens sister in law is in fear for her life?She revolted against the saudi's treatment of her and her children and now she lives in fear everyday because she broke from the muslim religion.God Bless her and all the strong women who courageously fight to be treated as a human being.Muslim men treat dogs better than their women.
2007-01-07 08:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by jnwmom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a good muslim to me. Get used to it, you all will be living this way soon.
2007-01-07 07:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋