what to do? girls pls rply and doctors pls help?
2007-01-06 22:33:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
well... when you do premarital sex, you will commit a big sin to the lord...
i once saw my klsmyt when i attended the mass in the church and i have putten up in mind that how can he afford to continue sevrving the church as a sacristan but he always continue to commit that kind of sin?! (cause i know he aways does..)
well.. in western countries it is normal but here in the philippines, IT IS NOT!!!!!!
dont get iInfluenced by others! OK?! (~_^)
2007-01-06 23:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by ZOMG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings about sex may stem from how your parents felt about it and the views that they taught you either directly or indirectly.
You should be proud to still be a virgin, nothing is wrong about 'thinking' about sex it is a very natural thought process. It is a sin in the Bible to be sexually active with a man or girl before marriage, it is called fornication in the Bible if you want to look it up. It sounds like you have a more deeper issue going on? If you were sexually abused then that could have a negative effect on your mind set and you should think about getting counseling.
2007-01-07 06:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by LS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its' my pleasure to help you my dear. Its' difficult to see a vergin lady/man in western countries. Sex is not a sin, but to be dishonest with your partner produces a guilty conscious.
Virginity will give you a moral and character which will make your life calm, quiet and happy if you get a partner like you. You are not an ordinary but a very special man/lady. So don't think of sex but think of a honest partner and take help of your parents in that matter.
Your virginity will help you to concentrate on your studies and you can take yourself to a height that is not possible to achieve by enjoying sex and wasting time and energy.
2007-01-07 06:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by dbgyog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural that you think of sex - its part of life- and the male sex drive is very strong. Its not a shame to be a virgin - its better to share with some one you truly love. As a girl I think it is sweet for a guy to wait for love than have so many partners to prove he is superman.
Wait to fall in love and be loved and then express your love to your partner by making love.
2007-01-07 10:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bianca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to get over your inhibitions. Sex is great if you find the right person. Obviously you're shy about it, but you won't have very strong relationships in the future acting like this. Try to get over your inhibitions by watching **** in private, or talking to your friends, try flirting with guys, try kissing. Start out slowly and try to familiarize yourself with sex. Masturbate, so that you can understand that sex is something that feels good and can be relaxing and satisfying, and it's not dirty.
Maybe what you need to do is find an understanding guy that you have a strong friendship with, and try dating with him and eventually this can lead to a strong sexual relationship. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-07 06:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sabby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey man come on dont feel shy to do sex. thats not shy what ur feeling, i think u have some kind of negetive feeling on sex, how ever think cool and try to eliminate that from ur mind and be free and dont get afraid of any thing. its just a feeling ur sharing with some one if they r really intrested in u. show courage and be a man thats not shy. go on now.
good luck...
2007-01-07 09:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by sanjeev k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...no. Why would you be ashamed of thinking of something so natural? Especially if you're not getting any at the moment...that's probably why it's always on your mind.
2007-01-07 06:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats like asking if you should feel bad for laughing. Your human. If it's a sin to think about sex, then we are all incredibly evil, and there's nothing we can do about it.
2007-01-07 06:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think ashamed,its human nature.It's normal to every person to have this feeling.Don't worry try to control and concentrate in good hobbies.
2007-01-08 10:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God designed the procreation process. Are you saying God is a sinner? If he's ok with it, you should be too!
You're placing waaaaay too much culturally-influenced emphasis on the whole sex thing.
2007-01-07 06:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by SloBoMo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋