ok so, my friend, very close friend, i've known her for about a year and a half now, and we are best friends. she has a boyfriend. i feel very responsible for her so i take care of her alot, i watch out for her. i have very good information that her boyfriend is going to dump her soon. what im asking here is, will she beleive me if i tell her that, and take my advice and drop him before he dumps her for another girl. i am really worried about her, she has gotten hurt before, and i was always there for her. she knows i wouldn't lie to her, but as far as this goes i don't know if she would trust me over her boyfriend. i've always watched out for her, and i know if i let this go, i would hate myself for not trying to do something. thanks for any answers.
2007-01-06 22:30:18 · 13 answers · asked by aaron m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do u think that ur best friend belives u then go ahead without any hesitations but remember and be sure that u have many provs and and u also have to take care that u tell this in a very normal and try to bring it in the middle of a friendly conversation if u want more then make that peson speak aloud and confess to your friend but thats tuff u know one thing buddy u r the best I believe that a true frnd shud definately be like u and if u dont mind i want to b your friend bye and tc email me rituevergreen@yahoo.com and ritu_princess@hotmail.com i will b waiting 4 your emails buddy plz do email me plz plz plz plz i want a frnd like u plz plz plz plz plz
2007-01-07 01:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Farzana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if this really close fiend of yours ,that has been knowing you for about a year in a half should at least try to understand that even though she has a boyfriend, the fact is you are still both talking to one another,I mean you and her are friends. You should just talk to her and let her know you have very good information that her current boyfriend who she is with wants to dump her and leave her and as you as her good well-known friend just doesn't want her to get hurt. You are doing the right thing looking out for the people that you really do care about being the person that you are and the way you see things that the girl who you care for doesn't deserve in any way to be missed treated or dumped on if in this situation is some what true on your behalf I just give you my certain suggesting. Try to talk with the girl, your friend and let her know what you know before it's to late and at least she will have an idea of why somehow things with her current boyfriend or not so great. If other people like yourself are hearing rumors going on about this same peticular girl. So I just give you this advice go to your friend this girl and tell her you care about her a lot and you are just looking out for her the best way that you think in your right mind is the best way talk to her let her know what you know.??? Just see how she feels for you or even cares of what you want too let her know .Well that's my point. Wish you the best of luck Goodbye!!!
2007-01-07 06:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by Soncheray N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a really good friend, u gotta save her, sometimes at the cost of her hating you momentarity. Manipulate the conversation as such that you get to know how she currently feels about her boyfriend. Drop a hint of what you know (only if your source is 100% reliable) , just so you are preparing her and just let her know you will always be around no matter what happens-nothing is worse than a rude shock esp. when u r secure in a relationship.
Also, if you REALLY wanna have her jump back soon, make her meet a really nice guy so she doesnt get totally depressed ;)
2007-01-07 06:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by J1312 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, MIND YOUR BUSINESS, yes she is your friend, yes you like her a lot, but NO don't mess with that. If ever something went wrong and she did something stupid, you would feel really bad, knowing you at least helped cause this problem. Stay out of it, all will gain valuable experience. The worse thing you can do is shelter her too much from pain and suffering, she, like anyone else, has to learn life is not always fair. Wait till it happens, then offer your support, that is when she will need you the most.
2007-01-07 06:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by P.A.M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a proof about her boy friend, go ahead tell her. If you don't have it, don't even try to think that she will believe you, what will happen is she will hate you, cause no one in this world want to listen bad news especially if it's about your boyfriend. Trust me, you'd better stay away from this trouble...
2007-01-07 06:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by arn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? If she drops him or he drops her, she will still get hurt. Don't interfere in the situation. What if your info is bad, then she will get upset with you and he will fine out and hate you, which will cause her to hate you with his influence. Only smart action to take is let the them run there course and be there for her if he does break up with her.
2007-01-07 06:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Brad25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're close just talk with her. If you feel the guy is not a sure bet you as a good friend should communicate that to her. Otherwise what good friend are you.
Anyway you don't make decisions for people, you just communicate your feelings and ideas etc.
2007-01-07 06:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Hansinchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me she wont trust u 'bout this topic. B'coz she'll always feel dat u r wrong and she will not be ur frend anymore as she'll feel dat u r interupting in their matter and u would take her boy frends place.
Its on the basis of my own experience. pls do trust me!!
2007-01-07 06:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Rutu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off by reading your other questions i get the idea you may have feelings for the woman..... you may want to stay out of her relationship and back off it is not your call, just cause you like her doesn't make it right for you to interfere in her relationship trying to break her and her bf up just may end up making her hate you in the long run.
2007-01-07 06:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by jittarbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u care about her and if u r very concerned about her, tell her the truth immediately. she will trust u. u seem to be a very honest and true friend of hers. she will never mis understand u .tell her the truth and save her from that IDIOT!!!!
2007-01-07 06:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Praveena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋