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If a guy is nice to me or if he establishes a simple bodily contact or eye contact, a few days later i end up feeling something for him, i mean i "think i might be in love" kind of feeling. I know this is psychological but i don't know what kind of disorder it is. I think i keep on receiving the wrong signals from guys if you know what i mean. Fact is, i never had any relationship with a guy before. What is this?

2007-01-06 22:10:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

12 answers

Are you a guy?
Are you gay?
If so:don't think that sex has always to do with love.
It can be pure lust.
You are confused.
Need help figuring it out.
Use my messenger:but not for rubbish please
Only for real questions,
Greetings:Rob.xxx

2007-01-06 22:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

What's happening to you isn't necessarily a disorder, but it may be part of a more broad one. If you leap at the slightest bit of attention and fall hard and fast every time, then you most likely are just touch and emotionally starved. What that means is you have gone too long without making a meaningful connection with someone. It's probably hard for you to establish boundaries between different kinds of relationships and that makes it hard to read what these people are trying to convey to you. You may have some sort of personality disorder if you have a hard time understanding social cues in general and you should definitely do a little research on that.
All in all, you shouldn't worry too much. You just need to start small and practice talking to people. You need to find a balance between your completely closed off and emotionally unavailable state and your 'I trust you with my life even though we just met because you showed interest in me' state.

2015-07-07 02:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Fleur 1 · 0 0

This is not a disorder. The American Psychiatric Association did list homosexual proclivities as a disorder, but good scientific study changed their minds.

The APA took same-sex relations off their list and apologized to any gay patients they might have damaged, over the previous years of patient care.

That was more then 25 years ago. The Roman Catholic Church refuses to accept this medical decision, so they still call gays 'disordered.' This is actually an improvement for the Church, since it was not too long ago that they burned gays at the stake.

However, it took the Church over 500 years to admit that the world is round, and to admit they were in error when they put Galileo in prison for his scientific ideas.

So I would't hold my breath, because the powerful organized churches are about money and authority, mostly in the hands of angry white men, and they aren't going to surrender it peacefully. They seldom admit they are wrong, and when they do, it's 500 years too late.

What's confusing to many people is that many folks want to continue receving spiritual courage from the Church, and they want to continue suppoting the charitable work of the Church. This is okay, if they draw the line there.

But the Church is NOT QUALIFIED to elevatue sexual or emotional health in humans. They have a dreaful history of abusing and destroying the vulnerable people who turn to them for help, both Roman Catholic, Orthodox, and Protestant Christian.

It sounds to me like you are quoting an idea you received from a church, not from a medically-qualified doctor or therapist. If this is the case, run as fast as you can away from the religious people. They will only bring pain and misery into your life, once they empty your pocketbooks.

You are having the simple and natural impulses of infatuation for another guy. This is normal and healthy. But you need to also have healthy boundaries, like in any human relationship, and you need to take good care of your self.

Then you will be able to participate in a healthy relationship, whether you are attracted to gay or straight, both or neither.

Once again, you are not having a disorder -- this is normal for all humans. Ask your doctor, nurse, or a trusted school teacher if you need more advice.

2007-01-06 23:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Marc Miami 4 · 0 1

Infatuation

2007-01-06 22:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 2 0

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2016-10-06 13:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Don't right away label yourself with a disorder. Follow your feelings. See where they lead.

2007-01-06 22:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1 0

Maybe you just want to be in love and you therefore crush for just about every guy.

2007-01-06 22:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by djw008 2 · 1 0

You got a major crush on him

2007-01-06 22:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kedar 7 · 2 0

Maybe it's because you can't even give yourself a nick name instead of a row of dots!

2007-01-06 22:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

borderline personality search

2007-01-07 01:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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