The husband who left his wife and kids for another woman came back in their mortgaged home to get his things while the wife and kids were out. Her friends said he is not supposed to be there without the wife's presence but the husband said it's his home so he can come inside anytime without her presence. Does the wife have the right to request that she be present at home while her husband comes inside even though it's his home too? Should the wife seek legal assistance if the husband is stubborn? Please advise. Thanks.
2007-01-06 20:59:33 · 29 answers · asked by Dragoness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its his home. he can come and go at will. if she wants to do something about it she would need to get divorced or do something legally.
2007-01-06 21:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sleepyguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the legal terms of the separation is.
Have you seen a judge? If so, what does the order say about this?
If you have had no legal involvement, but it is a voluntary separation, he can come and go from his own home (assuming he is on title) as he pleases.
Why don;t you just change the locks?
A new lock is $25 at a home improvement store, and it takes a screwdriver and 2 screws to replace it.
2007-01-06 21:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the husband has left, then he has no right at all. That's classed as Breaking and Entering.
The wife didn't give permission, so it's illegal. The husband may have lived there once and half owned it or whatever, but he has now left, so he has no right. He should be reported/arrested for it.
If he wants his stuff back, why not ask the wife and kids to help, unless he's got something to hide (which is why he is breaking in and doing it)
PS:
Even if he has a key, it's still classed as breaking and entering.
2007-01-06 21:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Helly G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The husbands probably doing the best thing. Sounds like a volatile situation and while he is a coward it's probably best to keep the two apart. The husband isn't breaking any laws. If he is violent she could get a restraining order that would keep him away. If he's just getting his stuff and not causing trouble what's the problem? Sounds like the wife's angry and looking for a fight.
2007-01-06 21:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by cali_23_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He’s right. Until a court rules otherwise, he has just as much right to be at the house as she does, because it’s his house too. She can request that she be present when he comes inside, but he doesn't have to agree to it.
If she thinks this will continue to be a problem, then she needs to talk to an attorney.
2007-01-06 21:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are separated legally then she should consult her lawyer as to the terms of the seperation. If they are not separated legallly, then she has a problem. If he left his wife and kids for another women then he is not a decent person, and he won't listen to reason anyway.
She is better off without him.
2007-01-06 21:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your headed for a Divorce ..... LEGAL ASSIST it up!!!!! I dont think you can press charges for him going into his own house to gather his things unless you had a restaining order against him (food for thought if he continues to do this). But seems legal assistance is just a matter of time for you here. Good luck remember those kids still love and need there Dad AND there Mom!! hope it doesnt get to ugly for you.
2007-01-06 21:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by wendylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a personal opinion but here goes, I think that if he wanted to get his things the reason he sneaking in to get them while she is out is to avoid any confrontation with her. If he is not supposed to be there while she is gone she should tell him that and then be firm about it. If he gets stubborn then that is why we have lawmen, Police officers are always ready to standby while the parties move out what they need, and they will not interfere or help you as in move furniture but they will standby while parties retrieve small personal clothing items and such.
2007-01-06 21:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by yutrppn45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be legal, but it isn't right. Personally I would change the locks on the grounds of 'security'. The wife should definately get legal advice, she has no idea what he may get up to whilst he's in there. Sneaky and creepy.
2007-01-06 21:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 07:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sneak sex from my ex wife when shes's sleeping all the time, I sneak in her house and pretend to be a pizza delivery guy and I fark her, is not really worth all the work though, she never tips
2007-01-06 21:01:29 · answer #11 · answered by MiKe Drazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋