i meet a person and i do like him a lot. he told me that he likes me as well but he always ask for a kiss ?
i do not know what to do! he stopped talking with me and he said i am avoiding him. well, i am not - i do like him & i think that i care for him more than he do but i feel it still early for kissing.
but i feel left behind and his avoiding me make me feel down- what i should do?
2007-01-06 20:44:03 · 18 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
all that for kissing????
2007-01-08 04:47:51 · update #1
Move on. He is playing games of manipulation to get what he wants. Always do what you are comfortable with. Some men do not realize that it's the woman who calls the shots with affection. Surround yourself with positive supportive people so you gain inner strength and confidence and not put yourself in a position of feeling down as a result of someone else's bad behaviour. Find love and friendship from appropriate people. Have a great year.
2007-01-14 14:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by firestarter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should discuss with him how you feel. Hopefully, he'll understand where you're coming from. Honestly though. You shouldn't worry too much. I don't know what's your usual custom
from the country you came up. Maybe you're not so demonstrative in displays of public affection. A kiss is a natural act. You shouldn't give it any heavier thought or meaning. It's simply a display of affection, love or fondness. Kissing any loved one or friends, validates that person's need for affection.
If you don't want to be kissed on the lips. Next time you see him. Just hug and buss him. That is, rub or touch your cheek against his cheek. Just tell him how you feel about kissing. That it makes you self- conscious. And it's a special act between two lovers.
For all you know, he feels the same way towards you. That's why he's avoiding you. He might just want to avoid an awkward situation. So tell him. Remember, kissing is an innocent act. It can also mean a test on how you really feel towards him. Does he make you feel good all over? Are there any sparks? How's the chemistry?
2007-01-07 07:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by rosieC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're dealing with a guy who doesn't understand that kissing is an emotional thing. It comes off weird when a guy "asks" for a kiss (believe me, I've tried). He doesn't have enough game to understand that there's a time and a place.
But if you only like him, you might just like him as a friend. And if he doesn't want that, you two have no more business near each other.
2007-01-07 04:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by wood_vulture 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lee
You do what your heart says is right for you . Dont let any guy try and sway you from doing whats right for you . Tell him how you feel in no uncertain terms . If he truly cares for you it will only endear him toward you . If he takes offence he isnt worth the trouble or the stress created by the situation . Good luck
2007-01-07 05:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to talk to him tell him how u feel. but do strat to kiss anyone I did i'm pretty much a slut to ever girl and most guys. Try not to do this. Make sure u love them before do any thing with them!!!
2007-01-14 21:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Crain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't specify on the lips or on the cheek or forehead theres more places than your lips connected to your head.I don't see what's wrong with on the cheek at least if you don't want his chewing tobacco lips on yours.Now if you two brake up over this you can drop me a line then I'll pick up where he left off.
2007-01-07 18:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put forth your personality. Many women have this mistaken impression that hiding their personality is the way to go. If you have nothing to talk about, then of course its gonna lead to having casual sex. Thats the worst thing to do! So if you are being very personable and he is not, and wants kissing constantly, then just stop speaking to him.
2007-01-07 17:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are correct, if you don't feel like it, there is no reason why you should kiss him. If he really cared he would respect it and wait until you feel it's the right moment
2007-01-07 05:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by although71 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, I feel that this guy is possibly moving to fast for you. Vocal how you feel about it and if he continues acting this same way, move on. There are many MANY fish in the sea and more than enough do listen.
2007-01-07 05:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kiss is an emotional expression and it should come from heart. But stressing on it for a relationship is meaningless. He should understand you and you may also try to counsel him. Any how I shold appreciate to your firmness.
2007-01-14 07:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by naren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋